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Eight signs of sex addiction and how to fight it

Sex addiction can be a difficult problem to seek help for.

This in part is because the nature of the issue can be difficult to bring up with loved ones.

Also, a stigma of shame still surrounds sex addiction.

But many A-list celebrities have spoken out about their battle with Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder.

Recently, hip-hop pioneer Bobby Brown admitted to being a sex addict, according to new reports.

Other stars including Kanye West, Tiger Woods, and Colin Farrell have openly spoke about being unable to control their sexual urges.

Treatment for both sex and love addiction involves cognitive behavioural therapies to challenge and change the beliefs and mindset that accompanies these disorders, reports Wales Online.

Bobby Brown is notorious for his turbulent drug-addled relationship with late wife Whitney Houston (Mirror Online/ Grab)

Both sex and love addiction are complex behavioural disorders that often only respond to professional treatment. In order for a sex or love addict to recover, the issues underpinning their addiction must be treated comprehensively.

Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder has been recognized by the World Health Organisation as a mental health condition since 2018.

If you believe you may have an addiction you should talk to your GP or contact a specialist service for help.

The condition involves persistent and overwhelming thoughts of sex to the extent that a sex addict will have difficulty concentrating on anything else. These obsessive thoughts are only relieved (albeit very temporary) by engaging in the sexual act they are obsessing over.

The team of addiction specialists at private rehab clinic Delamere have shared eight signs of sex addiction and how to know if your sexual desires are becoming harmful - and when you should think about seeking help.

The compulsion to engage in sex

A sex addicts brain compels them to engage in sex, even when there is a high probability of negative consequences. The compulsion to engage in sex will also disrupt other areas of a sex addicts life.

Spending excessive time engaging in sex

A sex addicts dependence on sex will disrupt relationships, work or education, finances, personal health and mental wellbeing. They may miss necessary appointments, neglect their responsibilities and personal relationships to engage in sex.

Loss of control around sex

A sex addicts behaviour will often lead them to feel overwhelming feelings of shame, regret, powerlessness, anxiety and depression. Often a sex addict will lead a double life and have an immense fear of being caught out.

Excluding other activities

A sex addicts behaviour will become all-consuming to the point that they will lose interest in hobbies or activities they once used to enjoy. They are likely to withdraw from family and loved ones due to their preoccupation with sex and their feelings regarding their compulsive behaviour.

Continuation despite negative consequences

A sex addict will suffer negative consequences as a result of their sexual behaviour. Examples of common negative consequences that a sex addict may suffer include being found out as being unfaithful, contracting an STI or STD, unintentionally falling pregnant, losing a job or a relationship. Despite suffering negative consequences resulting from their sexual behaviour, they will not be able to stop, even if they want to.

Progression of sexual behaviour

Overtime a sex addict will find that they need more sex to satisfy their needs or forms of more risky sex. What used to satisfy them will no longer suffice. They may find themselves excessively watching or engaging in more extreme forms of pornography, having sex more often, committing criminal sexual offences, paying for sex, prostitution or engaging in forms of high-risk sex such as suffocation or strangulation.

Engaging in sex to the point of feeling pain

A sex addict may masturbate so frequently that it becomes painful or have so much sex or types of rough or sadistic sex that they suffer physical pain as a result. Yet this will not stop them from engaging excessively in sexual activity.

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