• Separate the eggs; whites into a large bowl, yolks into small one Photograph: Andrew Testa/Andrew Testa
• Add the milk and continue to stir or whisk for about four minutes until the mixture forms a dense creamy mass – the bechamel Photograph: Andrew Testa/Andrew Testa
• When tepid, whisk in the egg yolks and mustard
• Beat the whites (preferably by hand with balloon whisk but an electric beater works just fine) until they form soft and floppy peaks Photograph: Andrew Testa/Andrew Testa
• When the mixture is nicely married, pour into buttered, flour-dusted souffle dish. It should fill all but 1cm below the lip. With a knife cut a circle in the top of the mix – to create a crown – and sprinkle the finely grated parmesan Photograph: Andrew Testa/Andrew Testa
• While the souffle is cooking, assemble simple salad – watercress or rocket with a light dressing, a little acid to cut against the creaminess of the souffle
• Bake for 25 minutes before peeping. Test doneness with skewer. It won’t collapse. If skewer comes away cleanly and, depending on whether you want an oozy, flowing centre or a drier souffle, stop right there or cook for another four minutes. Serve with the watercress salad or a dish of crispy cavolo nero or spinach Photograph: Andrew Testa/Andrew Testa