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Made In Chelsea’s Binky Felstead reveals she’s suffered a miscarriage

Binky Felstead has opened up about suffering an early miscarriage.

The 30-year-old, who confirmed her engagement to Max Fredrik Darnton last month, posted an emotional statement on Instagram in a bid to pass on “warmth, comfort or help” to those in the same situation.

“Today would have been my 18 week mark, but sadly we had an early miscarriage just before 12 weeks,” the Made in Chelsea star wrote. “Not only was this heartbreaking for us, but it also came as such a shock to me.

“I hadn’t realised until then how blessed I was with having such a relatively straight forward pregnancy with India - I’ll admit I was naive enough to assume the next one would be as straightforward, but I had two early scans as I was concerned I was bleeding.

Binky has decided to speak openly and honestly about her miscarriage (PA)

“They found a ‘very strong’ heartbeat. However, on the third scan I was told ‘I’m afraid there’s no heartbeat’."

She continued: “When speaking to a few close friends about our situation, we learned that some of them too have had miscarriages in the past. I asked them why they’ve never said anything, and they just said they felt they couldn't, or shouldn’t talk about it. Almost like it’s a taboo subject, which is heartbreaking.

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I’ve thought long and hard about doing this post, but I felt that if I can pass on any warmth, comfort or help to anybody in the same position - well that would be great. It’s only fair that I share some of my “downs” as well as my “up” moments. Today would have been my 18 week mark, but sadly we had an early miscarriage just before 12 weeks. Not only was this heartbreaking for us, but it also came as such a shock to me. I hadn’t realised until then how blessed I was with having such a relatively straight forward pregnancy with India - I’ll admit I was naive enough to assume the next one would be as straightforward, but I had two early scans as I was concerned I was bleeding. They found a ‘very strong’ heartbeat. However, on the third scan I was told ‘I’m afraid there’s no heartbeat’. I was told by my doctor that 1 in 4 pregnancies miscarry (not that statistics make it any easier!) With 82% of my following being women - that means roughly 237,800 women “following” me could (or have) experienced the same, which is just so sad. When speaking to a few close friends about our situation, we learned that some of them too have had miscarriages in the past. I asked them why they’ve never said anything, and they just said they felt they couldn't, or shouldn’t talk about it. Almost like it’s a taboo subject, which is heartbreaking. If you have been through this, I hope you are giving yourself time to mentally and physically heal and do what you need. I keep reminding myself that there was nothing I could have done, and perhaps this was nature’s way of saying that for whatever reason, this little soul wasn’t ready for the world. Sending so so much love 🤍🙏🏼 I later learned that @miscarriageassociation is available to help anyone who has/is experiencing this. It’s a national charity that provides support and information for anyone who’s affected by miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy, this includes both women and men. You can call their helpline or talk to them on live chat or even message them on Instagram, and they will do whatever they can to help you through. See www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk #babylossawarenessweek

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“If you have been through this, I hope you are giving yourself time to mentally and physically heal and do what you need.

“I keep reminding myself that there was nothing I could have done, and perhaps this was nature’s way of saying that for whatever reason, this little soul wasn’t ready for the world. Sending so so much love.”

A number of celebrities have since reached out to the star, who is mum to three-year-old India, to offer their support.

Close friend Ollie Locke sent his support to Binky (Anthony Devlin/PA)

TOWIE star Billie Faiers wrote: “Lots of love, darling,” and added a heart emoji.

Jess Wright added: “Well done for sharing Binky!”

“I love you monkey!” Made in Chelsea co-star Ollie Locke said. “I’m always and forever very proud of you.”

Additional reporting by PA

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