Get all your news in one place.
100’s of premium titles.
One app.
Start reading
The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Guardian readers

Don't want children? Or not sure? Share your experiences

A close up of a newborn baby
British women are having fewer children than they have in the last 10 years. Photograph: Danny Lawson/PA

The assumption that women will become mothers is being tested more than ever.

The US birth rate has hit an all-time low, and British women are having fewer children than they have in the last 10 years.

If you have decided not to have children, or if you are considering remaining child-free, we would like to hear from you. What factors made you question becoming a parent, or have you always known? Do you feel societal pressure to become a parent, or sense that parents you know are suspicious of your decision? And how is your life different – for better or for worse – than people you know who have had children?

Tell us about your experience

Please fill in the form below if you are either unsure whether you want to be a parent, or are voluntarily child-free. We want to follow up on some responses via telephone, to be used in a podcast. Names, identifying factors and voices can all be changed, and we will check with you if you want to remain anonymous.

Your responses will only be seen by the Guardian. If you’re having trouble using the form, click here. You can read terms of service here.

Sign up to read this article
Read news from 100’s of titles, curated specifically for you.
Already a member? Sign in here
Related Stories
Top stories on inkl right now
One subscription that gives you access to news from hundreds of sites
Already a member? Sign in here
Our Picks
Fourteen days free
Download the app
One app. One membership.
100+ trusted global sources.