Commentary: My young friends in Afghanistan
When I visited Kabul as a peace activist in 2014, at the height of the U.S. troop surge, I spoke with “Esmatullah,” a pseudonym for a high school student I had known for four years. He urged me to tell parents in the United States not to send their sons and daughters to Afghanistan.
“Here it is very dangerous for them,” he said. “And they do not really help us.”
For many years, the United States claimed that its mission in Afghanistan improved the lives of Afghan women and children. But essentially, the U.S. war improved the livelihoods of those who designed, manufactured, sold and used weaponry to kill Afghans.
My young friend has been deeply troubled by many other incidents in which the United States directly attacked innocent people or trained Afghan units to do so. Two decades of U.S. combat in Afghanistan have made civilians vulnerable to drone attacks, night raids, airstrikes and arrests. More than 4 million people have become internally displaced as they fled from battles and scarred, drought-stricken lands.
“Saifullah,” a pseudonym for a university student in Kabul who spoke with me in 2019, says he is now an anarchist. He doesn’t place much trust in governments and militaries anymore. He instead feels a strong allegiance toward the grassroots network he helped build, a group I would normally name and celebrate, but must now refer to as my “young friends in Afghanistan,” for their protection.
The brave and passionate dedication they showed as they worked tirelessly to share resources, care for the environment, and practice nonviolence has made them quite vulnerable to potential accusers who may believe they were too connected with Westerners.
It’s difficult to forecast how Taliban rule will affect them or how much the former government is to blame for the Taliban’s takeover. Yet, we should be honest: The Taliban are in power today because of a colossal mess that the U.S. helped create.
It is now our obligation as U.S. citizens to insist on paying reparations for the destruction caused by 20 years of war. To be meaningful, reparations must also include dismantling the warfare systems that caused so much havoc and misery.
Our wars of choice were waged against people who meant us no harm. We must choose, now, to lay aside the cruel futility of our forever wars.
My young friend Esmatullah now longs to flee his country. He doesn’t want to be driven by fear, but he deeply wants to use his life to do good and build a better world.
Ultimately, Afghanistan will need people like him if the country is to experience a future where basic human rights to food, shelter, health care and education are met. It will need people who have already made dedicated sacrifices for peace, believing in the Afghan adage, “blood doesn’t wash away blood.”
The people of Afghanistan will need people in the United States to embrace this same teaching. We must express true sorrow, seek forgiveness and show valor similar to that of the brave people insisting on human rights in Afghanistan today.
ABOUT THE WRITER
Kathy Kelly, a peace activist and author, co-coordinates the Ban Killer Drones campaign. She has worked for nearly a half a century to end military and economic wars. This column was produced for The Progressive magazine and distributed by Tribune News Service.