When it comes to weddings, everyone wants something different for their big day - some people long for a grand party in a castle, while others would prefer to run off and elope.
No matter what you go for, it's totally your choice, though naturally there are bound to be a number of people out there who will judge you for it.
Take for example one couple who have been mocked online for offering guests a 'kissing menu' on their big day.
What's a kissing menu, you ask?
Well, it lists creative ways for guests to get the bride and groom to smooch one another during the wedding reception - because sometimes clinking a fork against your champagne flute just won't do.
Shared on a wedding shaming Facebook page, the kissing menu features four options for people to choose from.
It reads: "If you want to see the newlyweds kiss...a clink of the glass won't cut it!
"We're going to make you work for this!"
"We have a list from which you can choose, for which you may need a little more booze.
"The better the performance, the better the kiss."
The items on the menu include 'newlywed trivia' which challenged guests to answer questions about the couple, 'the exquisite example' which sees guests demonstrate a kiss for the bride and groom to copy and 'take your chances' where it all depends on the flip of a coin.
"Heads - the bride and groom will kiss," it says. "Tails - you kiss another guest."
Facebook users who saw the post were shocked by the menu, with some branding it "gross" and "cringe-worthy".
One woman, who had previously seen a similar "menu" at another wedding, wrote: "Spoiler alert: no-one wants to see you kiss that bad.
"Entire night went by without anyone using these cringe-worthy alternatives."
She also uploaded a snap of the menu, which encouraged people to sing to the couple and to play a comedian.
Another added: "This is the weirdest thing I've ever seen."
