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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Technology
Charles Arthur

You decide: what do you do with that former bully's friend request?

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Photograph: Chris Jackson/Getty Images

A person who used to bully you between the ages of 6 and 16 – not physical bullying, more just being a real sod – has sent you a friend request on Facebook. Do you ignore them? Explain why you're not accepting their request? Or accept them, and let bygones be bygones?

(Yes, it is a real life experience - though from a reader, not me.)

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