Friendships take years to build, but they can be shattered in an instant. And sometimes you might not even understand why it’s happening until it’s too late to change anything.
So when Reddit user Queenbee71295 realized that her long-time bestie was ending their friendship over an engagement party, she decided to ask the internet for perspective. It felt so sudden, she wasn’t able to make sense of the whole ordeal by herself.
In a post on r/AITAH, she laid out the double standards her friend had enforced — from banning her baby to suddenly uninviting her husband — and asked if she was in the wrong for standing her ground.
The people closest to us are the ones who can hurt us the most

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When this woman’s best friend started acting weird and beginning to destroy their friendship, she couldn’t understand why






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Later, the woman clarified her situation by adding a few extra details




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She provided more details in the comments








Her story has sparked a lot of reactions online













Which ultimately encouraged her to block and cut her friend from her life

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People were sad for the bride’s groom





