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What is it really like to be a parent? Share your experiences

Newborn babies in a maternity ward at Royal Sussex County Hospital, Brighton
Newborn babies in a maternity ward. Photograph: Roger Bamber/Alamy

It can feel like parenting is harder now than it used to be. The rising cost of living, expensive childcare, a fast-developing social media landscape: all these can place a huge burden on families.

Many people have children, but parents are rarely given the opportunity to be frank about the difficulties that come with them. The common line is that the benefits outweigh the costs, but how do parents actually feel about the way their children have affected their lives?

Tell us your thoughts

We want to hear from you about what it is really like being a parent: the good and the bad. Please fill in the form below if you have children and want to talk honestly about the process of becoming a parent and how it has changed your life and relationships. Names, identifying factors and voices can all be changed, and we will check with you if you want to remain anonymous.

Your responses will only be seen by the Guardian. If you’re having trouble using the form, click here. You can read terms of service here.

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