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Nicola Fahey

Vanessa Feltz's cheating ex new career as an agony uncle - giving relationship advice

Vanessa Feltz’s cheating exfiancé Ben Ofoedu is dishing out dating tips as an online magazine’s new agony uncle.

The Phats & Small singer, 50, was thrown out by TV favourite Vanessa for being unfaithful and sexting other women – but is now offering love advice in Mind Jump Monthly.

Last month, he discussed how to handle seeing your ex with someone new and considered the ways to reconcile after a marital split.

When one reader asked how to make peace with an angry girlfriend, Ben advised: “Apologise for any mistakes made and express genuine regret. Show that you are willing to do what it takes to make things right and ask for forgiveness.”

Vanessa kicked Ben out of their London home (Dave Benett/Getty Images)
Ben is giving marriage advice in Mind Jump Monthly (Dave Benett/Getty Images for JD)

And in response to a reader’s question about a paranoid, controlling girlfriend, he said: “Dealing with a partner’s insecurities can be challenging, especially if they stem from past traumas. Let her know that while you understand her past experiences, her need to monitor your every move is suffocating and not helpful for either of you.”

In February, This Morning agony aunt Vanessa, 61, revealed that her 16-year relationship with Ben was over and she had booted him out of their London home.

He later confessed in this paper to sleeping with a woman three times in 2015 and sexting another for nine months.

At the time, Ben told how he was subjected to vile trolling, causing him to struggle with his mental health.

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