He thought he would spend a year in corporate life. He ended up spending seven.
A former corporate employee, who now works as a fitness coach, is sparking conversation online after sharing a candid reflection on how years in the corporate world changed the way he looked at work, success and ambition.
In a viral Instagram video, he recalled how certain he once was that corporate life was not for him.
“When I was in my first year of corporate, I used to tell my flatmates, ‘Bhai main toh bas ek saal kaam karne wala hoon, isse zyada mere bas ki nahi hai’ (Bro, I'm only going to work for one year; I can't do this for any longer than that),” he said.
That one-year plan eventually stretched into seven years.
But according to him, the real story was not how long he stayed — it was what happened to his ambitions along the way.
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According to the fitness coach, the shift is often gradual.
He claimed that around the second or third year, many professionals stop focusing on bigger goals and begin measuring progress through promotions, salary hikes and approved leaves.
“Second or third year ke around na, something changes” (Around the second or third year, something changes), he said.
“You basically lose all your ambition and your dreams become so small that you just want to switch your job, you want that next hike, you want that promotion, you want that weekly leave approved.”
According to him, these milestones slowly begin to dominate people's lives.
“Things like these, they become your whole world. You don't live anymore. You just survive so that you can work.”
He also spoke about dreams that many people carry into adulthood but gradually stop pursuing.
“And that little boy who had dreams of traveling the world, doing something of his own, all that just disappears.”
The most difficult part, he argued, is that the process happens slowly enough that many people may not even notice it.
“And the saddest part is this happens so slowly you don't even realize it.”
