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Teresa Bowden as told to Katie Cunningham

The kindness of strangers: a glamorous flight attendant gave me her brand-new lipstick

A vintage image of a woman applying lipstick
‘I wouldn’t normally have asked someone for their lipstick because it’s such a personal thing, but desperate times call for desperate measures.’ Composite: Victoria Hart/Alamy

On a trip to Cairns, I met an American man while scuba diving. We spent some whirlwind time together and, a few months later, I decided to go to Florida to see him.

It was a long flight with multiple layovers to get there, so when I finally got off the plane I was feeling tired and looking awful. Not ideal when you’re going to meet your new boyfriend!

I was taking stock of my washed-out appearance in the airport bathroom mirror when a glamorous flight attendant strolled in. She was putting on some lipstick and, not having remembered to pack any of my own, I bemoaned how terrible I looked and asked her if I could borrow some. I wouldn’t normally have asked someone for their lipstick because it’s such a personal thing, but desperate times call for desperate measures.

She went one better than just loaning me hers. Out of her purse she pulled a brand-new tube of lipstick and handed it to me, telling me I could keep it. I put it on and immediately felt much better, emboldened to go and meet my American beau in the pickup area.

I kept her tube of lipstick for years because it reminded me of that very generous gesture. I was in a vulnerable state, not feeling my best, and her act touched me.

Things didn’t work out with the boyfriend – long distance is tricky – but I never forgot that small but impactful gift from a stranger. I think a lot of selfless acts probably happen in women’s bathrooms.

What is the nicest thing a stranger has ever done for you?

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