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While wedding guest etiquette is often straightforward, gifting is anything but. Do you play it safe with a generic toaster? Splurge on a bottle of champagne that will probably sit next to the dozens of others they receive?
To help you select an item that stands out, we rounded up our favorite custom wedding gifts, including personalized embroidered napkins and a paint-by-number kit for their favorite wedding photo.
Below are 12 items beloved by our writers that practically guarantee that when the newlyweds send out their thank-you notes, when it comes to your card, they’ll actually mean it.
Frontgate Monogrammed Bath Towels
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Frontgate’s towels, which consumer journalist Jon Chan named “best for gifting” out of all the bath towels he spent weeks testing, are a well-made bathroom upgrade that may last your recipients for years. “Have you ever seen a movie that depicts a rich person’s home or at a five-star hotel, and they have monogrammed towels? Frontgate can give you that look and feel,” he wrote. The world is truly your oyster, as Frontgate offers 28 color options and the opportunity to add the couple’s monogrammed initials in a shade of your choosing.
Married, Met, Engaged Map
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If you want a gift to tug at their heartstrings, we love this map. Its customizable design allows you to document the couple’s relationship journey in the form of jigsaw puzzle pieces, including where they met and got married. “I thought it was a cool way to remember our history,” Matthew K, an e-commerce manager, told Marissa Miller, a Filter contributor, in our Valentine’s Day gift guide.
Global Engraved Chef’s Knife
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A chef’s knife is a kitchen must have. Stephen Treffinger, a Filter contributor, praised this 8in Japanese knife for its durable stainless steel and a handle that he said “feels like it was custom-made for my grip”. And while he admitted that the knife has lasted longer than some of his relationships, we hope that isn’t the case for your recipients. The knife allows custom engravings that are meant to last.
Personalized Embroidered Napkins
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Whether your recipients are known for hosting dinner parties or always upgrading their kitchen decor, a quality set of personalized napkins will rarely lead you astray. We recently suggested these linen ones in our Mother’s Day gift guide, which let you choose a font, embroidery and napkin color.
Cameo Personalized Celebrity Message
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Although you may not be able to track down the couple’s favorite singer to perform at their wedding, you can enlist the help of said artist to deliver them a personalized message.
What is this sorcery, you ask? It’s Cameo, a website that allows you to request brief video messages from celebrities. With a rolodex of thousands of musicians, actors, comedians and more, Lily Smith, Filter UK’s researcher, deemed this gift as one “they won’t forget”.
Shutterfly Custom Puzzle
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Are they hoping to reduce their screentime in their new era? Are they 30 going on 60? A puzzle will rarely disappoint.
Although we originally suggested this option in our Mother’s Day gift guide, Shutterfly’s customizable puzzle also makes a wonderful wedding gift, offering options to select a photo and any number of pieces from 60 to 1,014.
Custom Hand-Painted Watercolor
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This gift has a pretty good success rate: Karen Yuan, Filter commissioning editor, has gotten these custom watercolor paintings of wedding venues for two different couples who have put them on display in their homes. The artist, Johnson, works from a provided photo to paint any location (in these cases, a vineyard in Italy and a desert in Utah). Bonus: Johnson is talented and fast, making this an excellent option for procrastinators.
Mark & Graham Luggage Tag
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If you’re gifting a couple addicted to browsing Google Flights, we suggest a practical pair of personalized luggage tags.
This stainless steel tag with a vegan leather strap came recommended by Elizabeth Brownfield, a Filter contributor, in our guide to the very best custom travel gifts. Grab two so that they can match, perhaps opting for an engraving that nods to an inside joke or nickname.
Shutterfly Wall Calendar
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In our Valentine’s Day gift guide, we asked people to share the romantic gifts they’ve given or received. This customizable calendar was suggested by a photographer who gave it to her boyfriend when they first started dating. Whether it’s a photo you tracked down from the couple’s first date or an array of embarrassing baby pictures, Shutterfly lets you tailor each month of this calendar to your heart’s desire.
No Particular Order Everything Wedding Cards
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Recently, I tried out No Particular Order’s acquaintance cards, which encourage you to share the cards with cute-looking strangers in hopes of a connection. While my efforts haven’t yet resulted in a wedding of my own, I can attest to the stationery brand’s quality and creativity.
So, I was thrilled to find that they make a customizable wedding card, complete with choose-your-own greeting prompts such as “cheers to the …” and “omg it’s your …” The cards, which come in a set of 10, can be used by guests or the couple, and can even double as wedding invites or thank-you notes.
Custom Paint by Number Kit
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If you’re gifting the couple who met in art school or who adore strolling galleries on the weekend, you may want to return that cutlery set in favor of this custom paint-by-number kit, acrylic paint, brushes and hanging hooks included. In our holiday gift guide for “people who already have everything”, one recipient told Marissa Miller, a Filter contributor, it was both “personalized and sentimental”.
Custom Illustration
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In Filter contributor Ali Francis’ wedding gift guide, she asked people to share their favorite items they received. One suggestion came from Alexander Rigby, who received a hand-drawn watercolor of his engagement photo.
Whether it’s of their wedding venue or where they met, Francis noted that a custom illustration is “the kind of personal touch that makes a gift truly unforgettable”.
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