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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Guardian community team

Tell us: what happened to your relationship when your children left home?

Composite image of a 19th century couple and their children.
With the kids now looking after themselves, have you found time for romance? We’d love to hear your stories. Illustration: Universal Images Group North America LLC/The Guardian

Regardless of whether your kids have flown the coop or become part of the boomerang generation, as the distractions of child rearing dissipate, a renewed focus on your romantic relationships is all but inevitable.

Whether you’re starting an exciting new chapter with your partner, parting ways after decades in the trenches together or finding new love after parenting solo, we want to hear how your romantic world is evolving beyond raising kids.

Share your experience

You can share your stories and tips about romance once the kids are grown via this form. Please do not write about someone else without their permission. Please share your story if you are 18 or over, anonymously if you wish. For more information please see our terms of service and privacy policy.

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