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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Guardian community team

Tell us: how do you maintain friendships with your exes?

Composite image of two women for callout to readers on 'how do you stay friends with your exes?'
Tell us about your experiences in trying to stay friends with an ex-partner. Photograph: SeventyFour Images/Alamy

Romantic incompatibility doesn’t have to mean calling time on a genuine connection with someone. And when kids (or pets) are involved, or friendship groups are at stake, staying amicable with a former flame can be in everyone’s best interests.

We want to hear your tips on how to stay mates with an ex. How long did it take to adjust? How does it affect your current relationships? And is it worth it?

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