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We Got This Covered
Sadik Hossain

Teen girl disguises herself as 3 different boys and dates her 2 best friends for years. The truth comes out during a police strip search

In 2012, a British court sent 21-year-old Gemma Barker to prison for 30 months for fraud and sexual assault. The young woman from Staines, Surrey, had created three fake male personalities and used them to trick two teenage girls who were her friends. The case made news around the world and became a Channel 4 documentary called The Girl Who Became Three Boys.

The plan started in 2009 when Gemma became friends with two 15-year-old girls, Jessica Sayers and another girl who wanted to stay anonymous. She then made up three different teenage boys named Aaron, Luke, and Connor. Each fake character had its own Facebook page, email address, and phone number. She created different personalities for each one to match what each girl liked.

As per The Guardian, Jessica Sayers decided to share her story publicly and explained how everything fell apart. She had been dating Luke, who was really Gemma in disguise. After they broke up, she started seeing Connor, who helped her feel better. At the same time, her friend Alice was dating Aaron. All three boys did the same strange thing. They never took off their hats or hoods. 

They said it was because they had a condition that caused hair loss. Luke only talked through text messages. He would hold up his phone for Jessica to read what he wanted to say. Everything came out when police arrested Connor for sexually assaulting Jessica. During a strip search at the police station, officers found out that the person they arrested was actually a woman.

How Gemma Barker kept three different identities going without getting caught

Gemma’s trick worked because of a few things. She played with people’s feelings both as herself and as the three fake boys. She told big stories about family members dying to explain why the girls could never meet their families. Her disguises were good enough to fool the victims, their families, and even their teachers. Stories like this have shown up often in true crime documentaries, with people curious about how some people can lie so much.

The Channel 4 documentary said that Gemma had autism and attention deficit disorder. The show looked at why she might have done this while mostly focusing on what her victims went through. Jessica said the whole thing was confusing, but she believed what she saw. When someone asked if Connor was good-looking, she said after waiting a moment that the picture was good-looking.

The case brought up big questions about how easy it is to fool teenagers. Both victims went through hard times because of what happened. Alice lost her virginity to Aaron, and Connor sexually assaulted Jessica. The documentary showed how much teenagers want friends and relationships. 

This need can make them miss warning signs that other people might notice right away. People who want to learn about more cases of lying and tricks can watch many true crime documentaries that look at similar stories.

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