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The Canberra Times
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Julia Kanapathippillai

Survivor advocate Grace Tame named Australian of the Year

Survivor advocate Grace Tame has been named Australian of the Year for 2021. Picture: Sitthixay Ditthavong

Grace Tame, the 26-year-old woman behind the #LetHerSpeak campaign, has been named the 2021 Australian of the Year.

Ms Tame is the first Tasmanian to earn the title, awarded for her tireless campaign to repeal a law that silenced Tasmanian sexual assault survivors.

Ms Tame was teary as she accepted her award.

"Straight to the pool room," she said, quoting the classic Australian film The Castle.

"To all survivors of child sexual abuse, this is for us."

Under section 194K of the Tasmanian Evidence Act 2001, victims of sexual assault were previously unable to speak about their experience - despite perpetrators and media being free to do so.

Following her involvement in the #LetHerSpeak campaign, section 194K was amended in April 2020.

As a 15-year-old, Ms Tame was groomed and sexually assaulted for six months by her 58-year-old maths teacher Nicolaas Bester.

Mr Bester was sentenced to two years and 10 months jail in 2011 for his abuse of Ms Tame, but was released on parole after serving 19 months.

There's no shame in surviving. The shame sits at the feet of predators.

2021 Australian of the Year Grace Tame

After his release, Mr Bester bragged about his abuse of Ms Tame on social media.

Following a four-month stint in jail for the creation of child exploitation material, the convicted paedophile continued to speak publicly about his crimes, portraying himself as a man who had had his life unfairly stripped away from him.

Bettina Arndt interviewed Mr Bester in a video titled "Feminists persecute disgraced teacher" on her YouTube channel.

Enraged by the interview, Ms Tame had a desire to speak out about her experiences and set the record straight, but discovered she was legally unable to do so.

Following a two-year battle at the Tasmanian Supreme Court, and after $10,000 in legal fees, Ms Tame became the first Tasmanian woman to be granted an exemption from the law.

Once she was allowed to publicly self-identify as a rape survivor, she took on the challenge to allow all survivors in Tasmania to own their stories.

Ms Tame enlisted the help of journalist and sexual-assault survivor advocate Nina Funnel to create the #LetHerSpeak campaign to repeal the law.

Grace Tame, centre, arrives at the Australian of the Year Awards at the National Arboretum on Monday evening. Picture: Sitthixay Ditthavong

Her campaign gained international recognition during the height of the #MeToo movement.

Ms Tame has provided crucial insight to Australian and international law-enforcement agencies about the experiences of sexual abuse survivors and the effects of child grooming.

She has spoken publicly about the ongoing effects of sexual abuse on survivors and her struggles with anorexia, drug abuse and self-harm.

"What's gotten me through is the sense of family that I value and love. And exercise. Self care. Looking after myself and eating well. I do a lot of yoga teaching and I run," she said in 2019.

"One step at a time. That's all you can do. Because some days I just want to fall in a heap."

After being named Tasmanian Australian of the Year, Ms Tame said in October that she shared her award with fellow sexual assault survivors.

"There's no shame in surviving. The shame sits at the feet of predators, of perpetrators of these crimes."

National Australia Day Council chair Danielle Roche said Ms Tame and fellow 2021 Australian of the Year Award recipients epitomised the Australian values of respect, tolerance, equality of opportunity and compassion.

"They are strong, determined women who are dedicated to breaking down barriers and advocating for people's rights - particularly the rights of women and children," she said.

"Because of them, others get a fair go."

Ms Tame said this year she would focus on empowering survivors and emphasising the importance of education to prevent sexual violence.

"I was abused by a male teacher but one of the first people I told was also a male teacher, and he believed me," she said.

"It starts with conversation, we're all welcome at this table."

Ms Tame ended her acceptance speech with a battle cry.

"I remember him towering over me, blocking the door. I remember him saying, 'don't tell anybody', I remember him saying, 'don't make a sound," she said.

"Well, hear me now, using my voice, amongst a growing chorus of voices that will not be silenced."

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