Tipping has become a hot topic, and for good reason. It seems like everywhere you turn, someone is flipping a screen around and asking for a tip, even for things that never used to require one. As the cost of living rises and digital payment systems make tipping more visible, it’s easy to feel pressured into giving extra money for every little service. But not every situation calls for a tip, and sometimes, it’s okay to say “no.” Understanding when tipping is appropriate helps you protect your budget and send a message about what you value as a customer. Here are seven services that, in my opinion, don’t deserve my money when it comes to tipping.
1. Self-Checkout Machines
Let’s start with a modern annoyance: self-checkout machines. These kiosks are designed to save businesses money by reducing the need for cashiers. Yet, some stores have started prompting customers to leave a tip after scanning and bagging their own groceries. Tipping is meant to reward personal service, not to subsidize a company’s bottom line while you do all the work. If you’re not receiving direct assistance, you cannot tip a machine. Save your money for situations where real people are providing real service.
2. Fast Food Counters
Fast food has always been about speed, convenience, and affordability. The employees behind the counter are paid hourly wages, and the service is typically limited to taking your order and handing you your food. While treating workers with respect is important, tipping at fast food counters isn’t customary or expected. If you want to support workers, advocate for fair wages rather than feeling pressured to tip every time you grab a burger and fries.
3. Retail Stores
Retail employees work hard, but their jobs don’t traditionally involve tipping. When you buy clothes, electronics, or home goods, you’re paying for the product, and the service is included in the price. Some stores have started adding tip jars at the register, but this isn’t standard practice and shouldn’t be expected. Consider writing a positive review or letting a manager know if you receive exceptional help, like a personal shopping experience or a special service. Your appreciation can go a long way without opening your wallet.
4. Coffee Shops with Minimal Service
Coffee shops are a gray area, but let’s be honest: not every coffee order deserves a tip. There’s little reason to tip if you’re ordering a simple drip coffee and the barista just pours it. Tipping makes more sense when someone goes above and beyond, like crafting a complicated drink or providing table service. With the rise of digital payment screens, it’s easy to feel guilted into tipping for the bare minimum. Remember, tipping should reflect the level of service, not just the presence of a tip jar.
5. Takeout Orders
Picking up takeout is convenient, but it doesn’t involve the same level of service as dining in. You’re not being waited on, and the staff’s involvement is limited to packing your order. While some restaurants add a tip line to takeout receipts, you shouldn’t feel obligated to tip unless someone provides extra help, like carrying a large order to your car. Tipping for takeout is optional, but it is not required.
6. Delivery Apps with High Service Fees
Food delivery apps have changed the way we eat, but they’ve also introduced a confusing web of fees. Many apps already charge service fees, delivery fees, and sometimes even “small order” fees. When you see a tip prompt after paying all those charges, it’s natural to wonder where your money is going. Unless your driver goes above and beyond—like braving bad weather or delivering to a tricky location—don’t feel pressured to tip on top of hefty fees. Make sure your tip is rewarding the person, not padding the app’s profits.
7. Subscription Box Deliveries
Subscription boxes are all about convenience, but the delivery drivers are usually paid by the company and don’t expect tips. Whether it’s meal kits, pet supplies, or beauty products, these services are priced to include delivery. If you’re prompted to tip during checkout, remember that you’re already paying for the service. Save your tipping budget for situations where someone provides personal attention or goes out of their way to help you.
Setting Boundaries: Tipping Should Be Earned, Not Expected
Tipping is a way to show appreciation for great service, not a mandatory fee for every transaction. As digital payment systems make tipping more visible and frequent, it’s important to set boundaries and use your money intentionally. By reserving tips for situations where service truly stands out, you send a clear message about what you value as a customer. Don’t let guilt or social pressure dictate your spending tip when it feels right, and skip it when it doesn’t.
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