Every week a Guardian Money reader submits a question, and it's up to you to help him or her out - a selection of the best answers will appear in Saturday's paper.
This week's question
My middle-aged, impetuous sister has just returned from an "idyllic" holiday in rural France and is now insisting on selling up and moving out there. I'm concerned her moderate savings will soon run out and it'll all end in tears. Should I talk her out of it? If so, how?
What are your thoughts?
