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Sam Fender says 'incredibly kind and caring' Elton John helped him cope with fame struggles

Tyneside singing star Sam Fender has revealed how Elton John helped him through his toughest times since his music career took off.

The North Shields singer-songwriter is now riding high after a triumphant performance on Glatonbury's main stage. But Sam admits he struggled to cope with fame after winning his Brit Award in 2019.

And he has now told how global megastar Elton John and his husband David Furnish helped him through some difficult days. In an interview with the Mirror, Sam said: “Elton has been so incredibly kind and caring. He found our music before we [his band] signed a deal.

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“It was encouraging to have endorsement at such an early stage. I stayed at their house in Windsor when I was going through a pretty rough time mentally. They really looked after me and helped me understand the world I was walking into.

“Because my life in the last four years...I have gone from being on welfare with my mother to winning Brit Awards and two number one albums. It was quite a lot to take in.

Sam Fender performs on the Pyramid Stage at the Glastonbury Festival at Worthy Farm in Somerset, wearing a yellow North East Homeless badge (PA)

“They have been incredible for that sort of stuff. He is the ally that every young musician coming into this crazy career deserves.” Sam says that during his time at Elton's house he stayed up boozing while sober Elton was on soft drinks.

“We stayed up until four in the morning once. He doesn’t drink so I was progressively getting more drunk," he said. "But he is stone cold sober partying on non-alcohol cocktails. We sat at the kitchen table playing tunes we listened to.

“He is like an encyclopaedia and he introduced me to four artists that I now like. Once he knows you like something, you go back home and within two days a courier turns up with 17 vinyls.

Elton John and David Furnish (Getty Images)

“Half of my library is stuff Elton played in the kitchen. He is just a hero of mine.” Many of Sam's songs reflect on his troubled childhood and teenage years. Abandoned by his mum at the age of eight before moving back in with her after being forced out of his dad’s house by his stepmother

Sam, 28, is still undergoing therapy to help deal with the trauma. But he says writing music is his best outlet for his experiences.

“I feel like the therapy opened up a wealth of stuff to write about and has since been a catalyst," he said. “There is still so much stuff I haven’t really covered. I don’t particularly like doing it. I have to really force myself to go, because a lot of the time I am like, ‘I do not want to do this’.

“You go do it and sit there for the rest of the day thinking about stuff you do not want to think about. It is easier to deflect. It would not be worth it if it was easy.”

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