The name is gruesome, but the financial devastation it causes is even worse. “Pig Butchering” (or Sha Zhu Pan) has emerged as a global scam phenomenon that is systematically wiping out the life savings of retirees at a terrifying rate. Unlike typical romance scams where a soldier simply asks for money for a plane ticket, this is a highly sophisticated, long-con investment fraud. It specifically targets the lonely, the intelligent, and the wealthy.
I have reviewed recent FBI reports and victim testimonies, and the complexity of this psychological operation is chilling. Scammers spend months “fattening up” their victims with affection, friendship, and fake profits before moving in for the slaughter. If you or your aging parents are active on WhatsApp, LinkedIn, or dating apps, understanding this script is essential before that first message arrives.
The “Wrong Number” Hook
Almost every case begins innocently. You might receive a text on WhatsApp or SMS that says, “Hey Sarah, are we still on for yoga?” or perhaps, “Is this the dog groomer?” Naturally, most people reply out of politeness to say, “Sorry, wrong number.”
However, the sender does not apologize and leave. Instead, they respond with something disarming like, “Oh my goodness, you are so polite! I am sorry to bother you. My assistant must have saved the number wrong. I hope you have a blessed day. By the way, I’m Li.” Consequently, they attempt to start a friendly conversation. They are not asking for money at this stage. On the contrary, they are just “making a friend.” This is the grooming phase. They are incredibly patient and will chat with you for weeks about life, food, and family to build a genuine bond.
The “Fattening” Phase
Once they have established a deep friendship or a romantic connection, they casually mention their financial success. They might send photos of luxury cars, vacations, and expensive meals to prove their wealth. When you eventually ask what they do for a living, they mention they trade cryptocurrency or foreign exchange.
Cleverly, they do not ask you to invest immediately. They wait for you to express interest first. Eventually, they offer to show you how their system works so you can enjoy similar success. They guide you to download a legitimate-looking trading app. While it looks professional and features complex graphs and charts, it is entirely fake. In reality, it is a simulation controlled solely by the scammer.
The Small Win
This step is the most dangerous psychological hook. They tell you to start with a small amount—maybe $500 or $1,000. You transfer the crypto to the platform, and a few days later, the app shows you made a significant profit, perhaps 20%.
Here is the genius part: they allow you to withdraw money. They actually tell you to take out your profit to prove the system is real. Once you see the funds hit your bank account, your skepticism vanishes completely. You think, “It works!” Furthermore, you now trust them implicitly. You have become the “fattened pig” and are ready for the slaughter.
The Big Kill
Now that you trust the system, the pressure ramps up. The scammer claims there is a massive market surge coming and urges you to go big to maximize returns. Consequently, victims often liquidate retirement funds, take out second mortgages, or borrow heavy sums from friends.
The app shows your account exploding in value, leading you to believe you are a millionaire. But when you try to withdraw the money, the trap finally shuts. The app freezes or displays an error message. Customer service then informs you that you must pay a “tax” or a “verification fee” to release the funds. Desperate to get their money, many victims pay it, only to be asked for more. This cycle continues until the victim has nothing left. Finally, the “friend” disappears, and the app goes offline.
Protect Your Heart and Wallet
This scam is effective because it exploits loneliness and greed simultaneously. These are not lone wolves; the scammers are often trained teams working in massive compounds overseas. They know exactly what to say to make you feel special, smart, and understood.
Therefore, the rule is absolute: never take investment advice from someone you met online. If a stranger on WhatsApp or a dating app starts talking about crypto, you should block them immediately. No legitimate high-net-worth investor finds clients via “wrong number” texts. Protect your nest egg by keeping your heart guarded.
Have you gotten the “Are we still on for yoga?” text recently? Tell us what script they used on you in the comments!
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