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Katie Dollard & Saffron Otter

'Picky' woman's 54 demands for potential boyfriend - including compulsory vasectomy

A woman has left people divided after revealing her long list of 54 demands for a future boyfriend - such as a compulsory vasectomy.

Other harsh requirements including not following attractive women on social media, bathing with her and letting her paint his nails.

Influencer July Jinku posed the question 'Do you think I'm picky?' in a video on Twitter, before going into detail about what she'd expect from her ideal partner.

The exhaustive list has sent social media users into a frenzy, with some people calling her a 'giant red flag' while others have commended her for knowing what she wants.

July, whose tweet from her account @JulyJinku has now garnered more than 415,000 views, split the demands into three sections.

July Jinku has shared her demands of an ideal man online (Jam Press/@julyjinku)
There were 54 requirements (Jam Press/@julyjinku)

The first section is called 'Top requirements', another is called 'Second priority', and the last is called 'Extras'.

Among the top requirements, the influencer said that her future partner must want to spend his free time with her, give her gifts, and must be intelligent.

She also asks that he has good spelling, and supports feminism and LGBTQ+, as well as liking anime and video games.

As a second priority, she stated that her future boyfriend mustn't drink or take drugs, and must have good culinary taste, as well as not follow 'sexy' women on social media.

July also wants him to like Japan, to get along with her family, but to not become close with her friends.

The future partner must be between 25 and 35 years of age.

The influencer said that her future partner must want to spend his free time with her... (Jam Press/@julyjinku)
... give her gifts, and must be intelligent (Jam Press/@julyjinku)

Lastly, in her 'Extras' list, she said that he must have a car, must have tattoos and piercings, and should have a vasectomy.

July would also like her future boyfriend to take pictures of her, compliment her, and must want to bathe with her.

People flocked to comment on her list – with many seeing it as a big red flag.

One person commented: "Imagine having to get a vasectomy to date... And being dumped every week because of insecurities/any nonsense."

However, someone else defended the list: "You are never demanding if you ask for what you are willing to give."

Another added: "'Don't be depressing', ok, that's almost like the perfect man you dream of and will continue to dream of, woman."

One Twitter user joked: "I meet most of your requirements but you don't meet mine."

Some people are not happy with the list (Jam Press/@julyjinku)
One said the list was a 'giant red flag' (Jam Press/@julyjinku)

While another asked: "When you have a boyfriend please upload this updated photo putting a tick on the qualities that your boyfriend has, to see if you filled the bingo or not."

"Giant red flag…daddy issues," commented another.

July's full list

Top requirements

Not wanting children.

That is dominant/Daddy.

Who wants to spend most of his time free with me.

That he be consenting, (gifts, invite me to eat, and so on).

Who wants to live with me and keep me.

Protector and be aware of my health.

That he likes physical contact a lot.

Active communication and empathy.

That is safe/has good self-esteem/is not jealous.

Good management of your emotions.

Intelligent.

Good spelling.

Support feminism and respect the movement LGBT+

Not a religious fanatic.

That loves to talk with me.

That he likes anime/video games/horror.

Who fully trusts me.

Her top requirement was for them to not want children (Jam Press/@julyjinku)
They must be physically active, July says (Jam Press/@julyjinku)

Second priority

Do not drink or smoke to take drugs (weed ok).

Let him teach me about his career or hobbies.

Culinary taste (try restaurants or recipes new).

That he shares his food and does not always eat spicy.

Who knows English.

Don't follow sexy girls on networks.

Don't have "girlfriends".

That does not become VERY friendly with my friends.

That you like Japan.

Get along well with my family.

That it is not depressive (or is taken care of).

Have solvency and financial stability.

Support me in my streams/networks/patreon.

Healthy habits (food, schedules, exercise)

Age from 25 to 35 years.

Very patient, don't yell.

That he likes how I dress and encourages me in it.

Good sense of humour.

That is not emotionally dependent or cursed.

Extras

Have a car

Let him live alone

Handsome.

With tattoos/piercings.

Taller than me.

Don't talk bad about your exes.

Tell me stories.

That I don't constantly try to like them things that he does.

Who always wants to take pictures of me.

Who constantly validates and compliments me on my physique/personality.

That he likes to travel.

Who wants to comb my hair/bathe/eat/dress.

Do not eat or hardly eat meat.

That is not toxic in video games

Let me paint his nails and dress him.

Having vasectomy.

Functional family and/or money.

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