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The Times of India
The Times of India
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TOI Lifestyle Desk | TIMESOFINDIA.COM

Optical illusion: What you see first reveals what you hate about your partner

In every relationship, we witness ups and downs and might hate certain things about our partners which is acceptable and normal. However, many times we pretend to be okay about some things that are not fine with our minds and souls but keep them a guarded secret. Many things make people feel upset and angry when in a relationship but nobody wishes to rock the boat.

Therefore, here’s an interesting optical illusion for you via which you will be able to reveal and understand what you hate about your partner. The first thing you see in the above picture will tell you about what you hate about your partner. After this exercise, you might wish to have a conversation with your partner about the blurry topics and enter into a fresh start with no abruptions and secrets.

If you saw the red curtain

If you first see the red curtain then you are someone who hates drama and conflicts with a vengeance. You always try to stay away from the drama and also hate the ugliness that comes with it. It might be exciting to date someone fun, charming, and adventurous, but you hate the part when things go downhill and you are always blamed for everything when something is not at all your fault. Therefore, stop being the scapegoat and start speaking up against this attitude.

The man on his knees

If you saw the man first then you hate your partner’s neediness and clinginess. It is okay to be like that at times but it is nothing short of a red flag at times. It might seem to be fun at the beginning but when you just can't keep your hands off each other, then it can become straight-up annoying. You will start feeling suffocated and smothered by their behavior but you might feel bad if you speak the truth.

The man’s face in profile

If you see the man’s face in the profile, then you hate your partner’s stubbornness in a relationship. Both partners need to compromise at times and meet halfway, but when your partner behaves in an adamant and dominating manner, it surely drives you crazy as they always expect you to understand their needs and wants but seldom do they understand yours. Thus, if you point this out, they tend to dump you as well instead of accepting their mistakes.

The angry man

At last, if you witness the angry man first then you cannot stand hot tempers, your partner might have a habit of flying into a temper which bothers you. However, you choose to keep quiet as you feel that it’s just going to make the situation worse and that you would rather let the situation pass. It is a fact that being short-tempered is not a very good quality to have, thus you need to speak up but gently deal with this situation. If you lose your temper then things can turn worse, but in the end, it is important to speak about it.

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