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Jessica Valenti

On International Women's Day, all I wanted was a day off

International Women’s Day celebrations in Buenos Aires, Argentina. ‘The truth is that I’d rather just have a day off from thinking about it all.’
International Women’s Day celebrations in Buenos Aires, Argentina. ‘The truth is that I’d rather just have a day off from thinking about it all.’ Photograph: Natacha Pisarenko/AP

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This week was International Women’s Day (IWD), and while the holiday usually calls for celebrating, this year I’m just ... tired. Exhausted, really. This is probably the most active IWD we’ve had in recent history – we’re talking, writing and taking action on feminism more than ever. Which would be great if not for the reason that we have to. Things are just that bad.

The Trump administration has made everything feel more urgent, to the point where we don’t even have a minute to breathe. And while holidays like this one are meant to celebrate women and their accomplishments, the truth is that I’d rather just have a day off from thinking about it all.

Glass half full

This video of Kelda Roys, candidate for Wisconsin governor, breastfeeding her baby while talking about her political platform, made the world a little brighter this week.

What I’m RTing

Who I’m reading

The New York Times’ new project, Overlooked, where the paper finally writes the obituaries of notable women that it long ignored, an anonymous account from a woman pleading with the #MeToo movement to recognize sexual assault within marriages, and Tressie McMillan Cottom on how the real threat to campuses isn’t “PC culture” (as some opinion writers would have us believe), but racism.

What I’m writing

So much feminist focus - understandably - has been on #MeToo. But we can’t ignore how the Trump administration is trying to bring back abstinence only education right under our noses.

How outraged I am

The Women’s Media Center released a report looking at the status of women of color in the media and the results are just about as bad as you might expect. These are the sorts of stats that should horrify and embarrass industry leaders – so I’m about a nine out of 10.

How I’m making it through this week

Watching this bunny try to jump into the bath with his human is pretty much the best thing I’ve seen all month.

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