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Matthew Dresch

Obsessed stalker followed his ex to hospital after she tried to kill herself

A stalker was so obsessed with his ex-girlfriend that he followed her to hospital when she attempted suicide following a 'relentless campaign' of abuse, a court heard.

Saffron Bennett took an overdose after limo driver Karl Silvester hounded her with more than 160 text messages, 60 calls and multiple emails a day.

After they broke up, he turned up at her work, parked outside her home and even attempted to force her car off the road, a court heard.

Subjected to vile emotional abuse and told she was just a 'used sl*t' the 28-year-old former teacher thought even if she died the 'nightmare wouldn't end.'

And the 30-year-old even tried to find her in hospital after she attempted to take her own life.

Police officers guarded Miss Bennett while she recovered at Queen Alexandra Hospital, Portsmouth, Hampshire.

Silvester called his former partner a 'used sl*t' (Saffron Bennett/Portsmouth News/)

Miss Bennett collapsed when they came eye to eye as the creepy stalker searched for her in the hospital corridors.

Speaking outside her home in Portsmouth on November 12 she said: "I was 20 minutes away from my liver collapsing when I was rushed to hospital and even while I was trying to recover Karl stalked and harassed me at the hospital, to the extent I had police officers at my bedside and my friends stay with me for safety.

"I remember thinking to myself even dying wouldn't get rid of him - he had broken me, I was worthless.

Ms Bennett thought she would never be free of her stalker (Saffron Bennett/Portsmouth News/)

"I had no life. I was not allowed friends - he would tell me what I can and can't wear, he would check my phone on a daily basis. He controlled everything, and I was too scared to fight back."

Addressing Silvester at Portsmouth Crown Court on November 7 Judge Roger Hetherington said: "You minimise your own behaviour and still seek to criticise her."

The judge said when the relationship ended on February 14 2018 Silvester stepped up his controlling behaviour.

He said: "She was bombarded by you with texts, phone calls and the like on a daily basis, and you made every attempt to ruin her life."

He said Silvester had followed Miss Bennett in his white BMW 'almost causing accidents at one point.'

Silvester turned up at Miss Bennett's work, parked outside her home and tried to run her off the road.

The monster sent the victim more than 160 text messages in a day (Saffron Bennett/Portsmouth News/)

Miss Bennett said: "He pulled up outside my work in a limo. He used a limo to stalk me. He had no shame. He used to put it on Facebook ."

Miss Bennett, who spent time in a women's refuge to flee her ex-partner, spoke outside her home - now bristling with CCTV cameras installed after her 'nightmare' imposed by Silvester.

Smirking Silvester was jailed for three years for his 14 months of stalking which took place from July 2017.

He was also handed a lifetime restraining order after being convicted of stalking causing serious alarm or distress.

The pair's tumultuous relationship started when dad-of-two Silvester gave Miss Bennett a lift home after a New Year's party.

Silvester moved into the home Miss Bennett shares with her mum Paulette, 54, and unwell father Tony, 59, who was powerless to help his daughter during her trauma as he underwent larynx cancer treatment.

He tried to force Ms Bennett's car off the road after they broke up (Saffron Bennett/Portsmouth News/)

Miss Bennett said her dad was left 'worried, stressed and angry' at himself being unable to help.

A previously outgoing person, Miss Bennett became a shadow of her former self at the hands of bullying Silvester.

She said: "I know I will never be the person I once was.

"I am now a scared, insecure, frightened individual. I cannot trust, I do not dress up because I feel worthless, I find being happy the hardest thing in the world.

"I don't know if these feelings will get easier but at the moment every day is a struggle and a silent battle I am having to have.

"I still wish at times I was dead as these feelings and the scars I carry do not make my life worth living."

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