Parents have hit out at a "nasty" mum after she "slagged off" a friend who refused to help organise their children's summer fair at school.
The woman, who is a member of the Parent Teacher Association, says she and other parents on the committee ran themselves "ragged" while organising the annual event. But she was less than impressed with one of her school mum friends, who "point blank refused to contribute" to the festivities, the Liverpool Echo reports.
Complaining online, she said that the fellow parent could have "managed a few hours" when she knew the PTA was "struggling". However, others were quick to hit back at her "unfair" criticism - and praised the friend for not being a doormat.
Taking to Mumsnet's popular Am I Being Unreasonable (AIBU) thread, with a post titled ' [AIBU] Annoyed she didn't help out - is that fair? ', the mum provided background information then penned: "I have five really close friends, all of our children attend the school. Two of them are on the PTA too. One more put in hours of time to help out. One was on holiday and one point blank refused to contribute. Not with the organisation, set up or actual day.
"The thing is the one that wouldn't help literally volunteers for everything. Her and her husband do loads for our town and are helpers with a number of groups and charities locally. She knew we were struggling. She's said before she won't join the PTA as she feels she does enough, fair enough. But I was organising this and thought they could at least manage a few hours for me.
"She turned up at the fair with one of her children yesterday, walked around for 45 minutes and then just left! Our other friends are divided, some have changed their opinion of her and think it's shocking she didn't help. Others think it's her choice and she showed support by turning up. I'm just really upset that she couldn't step up for me. Aibu?"
The mum's post was met with hundreds of responses from fellow Mumsnet users, keen to share their thoughts.
One said: "I think if she does other stuff she knows fine well it wouldn't end with the summer fair. It would be “just” an hour here and there and that would build up. She's been very clear she's not joining the PTA so you're being very unfair thinking just because she's your friend she should have helped. She's no more let you down than all the other parents who didn't help."
Another said: "You're being massively [unreasonable]. She told you she had too many other commitments and didn't want to add the PTA to it and it's not her fault you ran yourself ragged – you chose to step up for it, she didn't. And now you've gone behind her back slagging off her lack of help to other parents. Some friend you are."
A third commented: "YABU [you are being unreasonable]. She's allowed to choose how she spends her spare time and it does sound like she already has a lot on. Good for her for having the ability to not be a doormat and say no when something is too much of an ask for her."
Another Mumsnet user said: "Wow. You're no friend to her at all. She does other stuff voluntarily and you're sagging her off? Nasty."
And another added: "YABU. She does enough. She's drawn a perfectly reasonable boundary and explained her rationale. From the sounds of it you have not only been offended by her perfectly reasonable behaviour but have gone around b****ing to everyone else about it and gathering opinions to take sides against her. With friends like you, who needs b****y playground mums/enemies?"
At the time of writing, 98 per cent of Mumsnet users voted she was being unreasonable to be annoyed at her friend.
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