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Freddie Bennett

'My sister vowed to ban me from her wedding if I don't change my anniversary plans'

A woman was told to cancel her holiday by her sister who wants to honeymoon at the same location - or she risks getting uninvited from her sibling's big day.

Her sister is due to be getting married soon and is keen on being the first to do things and having the most special day - which includes keeping the holiday destination for herself.

But the woman's boyfriend did not know the sister wanted to honeymoon there and booked a special anniversary trip for himself and his girlfriend as a surprise and paid for it all too.

However, when the soon-to-be bride heard where this was, she was livid.

The boyfriend had booked the holiday to an exotic tropical island (stock photo) (Getty Images/iStockphoto)

In the Reddit post, the woman, who remained anonymous, explained: "My sister has always been a 'wedding' person, as in she's dreamed and planned her wedding even before meeting her boyfriend.

"Now that she's engaged, she wants it all: expensive cinematic venue, guest list in the hundreds, designer dress, etc, and she cares a lot about being the 'the first' and making everything special and just hers'."

But things went downhill when the woman's boyfriend booked the anniversary holiday and told the soon-to-bride about it.

The woman added: "This was a surprise trip planned and paid for by my boyfriend who would absolutely have no way of knowing my sister's plans (he's not close with her or her fiancé).

"She says that if I go there first, I'll take away the surprise and specialness of the destination, and is insisting that I cancel or change the destination. I'm pretty upset and called her entitled because there's no way I'm going to tell my boyfriend to change something very nice he did for me!

"My sister is now threatening to remove me from the wedding if I don't change my vacation, and my parents are begging me to give in to keep the peace."

In response, many sided with the author of the post and said she should not have to move the holiday destination.

One person wrote: "Why should you have to cater to her insane behavior?"

While another stated: "Go on this vacation so you don't have to go to her wedding. That is absolutely insane."

A third penned: "Honestly, this problem would be solved if you went on the holiday and subsequently got kicked out of the wedding party."

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