A woman wants to leave her husband after he asked to go for drinks with the woman he had an affair with - she says she can't take much more of him.
After she found out he had an affair with somebody from work he claims he severed all ties with her and they were just platonic friends.
But more recently he has been missing the friendship and asked his wife if he could meet up with her and a few others from work for drinks - but the move left her devastated.
In her Mumsnet post she says she has to leave him over this.
The woman, who remained anonymous, wrote: "Long story short but my husband had an affair with his work colleague for a year. When I found out I was completely traumatised but he was so upset and begged me to forgive him.
"He had to continue working with her but he swore to me he didn't speak to her anymore as just before the affair ended he had been trying to end it with her anyway and only sees her as a platonic friend now."
She added that she stayed with him but was not happy recently when he called her unreasonable for saying he should not be friends with her.
"I need to end this marriage don't I? He is completely overstepping any boundaries I needed him to adhere to," she said.
She added: "Even if he's telling the truth and it is 100% platonic (which I very much doubt as she was/is in love with him and he definitely had strong feelings too) then am I wrong to still think it's not ok for them to hang out together after everything?"
In response, many have offered their advice to the devastated woman as one claimed: "Definitely end it with him."
While another suggested: "You deserve so much better than this. I'd end it."
A third penned: "That's so disrespectful. The marriage is over sadly."
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