Until a few months ago, I was dating a beautiful woman. Life was great – sunshine and roses every day.
However, she has broken up with me. Initially, she cited her past. I reluctantly agreed, because I didn’t want her to be more upset. I waited a few weeks, then wrote to her to express my feelings. I said I missed her every day and told her what reminds me of her.
She replied that we have different outlooks on life and come from different cultures. She wants children, I don’t (I have my reasons, and I am willing to consider it with time). She didn’t give me the chance to explain, and confirmed she will not reconsider.
I may be a little overdramatic, but I miss her and I want her back. What can I do?
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