The most important thing in a relationship is trust.
When that's gone, it can be extremely hard to continue, as one unlucky woman recently found out.
Taking to Reddit, she explained that she recently called off her wedding - a devastating move to make, especially just a few weeks away from the big day.
And now she asked for advice on whether she was right to do so, as her family don't think so, while her partner is desperate for them to get back together.
Describing the situation, the 26-year-old woman explained that the couple is set to wed in three weeks in a small family wedding.
She wrote: "We both had bachelor/bachelorette parties with our wedding parties.
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"I went to a log cabin with my friends, we had a spa day and just relaxed, my husband and his friends were supposed to do something similar.
"I told my husband prior that if he goes to a strip club then I am not marrying him because I am uncomfortable with him going.
"He comes back and the first thing he says is “Baby I’m so sorry, but the guys surprised me and took me to a strip club."
"I said “Oh, so what did you do?” and he looked at me blankly and said “What do you mean?” and I said “Well what happened when you told them you couldn’t be there?” and he looked at me and went “Well, uh- I” and didn’t know what to say.
"I immediately was upset and told him I’m going to sleep at my sister’s, and that I do not want to marry him anymore, even if that means losing thousands of dollars.
"My fiance is begging me to give him another chance and thinks therapy may help but my trust feels completely violated.
"My sister thinks I’m overreacting as she hired a stripper for her husband’s bachelor party, but I don’t think she understands that I’ve set different boundaries in my relationship."
On the relationship forum, people didn't think she'd overreacted.
One person wrote: "One thing I’ve learnt in life is to be strict on boundaries. Don’t let anyone or anything change what you believe in. You will end up doubting yourself all the time and letting too much slide."
Another agreed, adding: "It's up to you. I would definitely not get married. This is not ok. He knew the boundaries, he accepted the boundaries, he proceeds to stomp all over the boundaries.
"This is definitely something that needs to be addressed before entering into marriage."
A third commented: "Don’t marry him. You set the rules and boundaries. He clearly knew them. What happens here happens for the rest of your life. Be firm on your boundaries or get walked all over."
