A mum has been slammed online after requesting a controversial gift from guests who would be attending her daughter's fifth birthday party.
The woman faced criticism after she asked partygoers to bring money rather than gifts since she doesn't want to receive a "huge amount of toys".
Parents were taken aback as they admitted that the request was "rude" and would make invitees feel "uncomfortable".
Despite receiving backlash, the mum claims that she had a valid reason to ask attendees to fulfil the money request.
Taking to Sydney Mums Facebook group, the social media user explained: "My four-year-old is turning five soon and we are planning a birthday party for her."
"Is it okay to mention in the invite that we would prefer cash contributions rather than gifts?" She questioned.
The woman went on: "'The intention is to have a compilation and then get her to go shopping for her a gift of her choice.
"We just live in a two-bedroom unit, so we don't really have space for a huge amount of toys."
Seeking advice from parents on whether her request for cash was appropriate, the woman sparked a huge debate in the comment section.
While several people admitted that the woman would be leaving attendees in an "awkward position" - others claimed that the ask for money was justified.
One person wrote: "I don't think many people would be happy reading that invite.
"It puts them in the awkward position of trying to figure out the 'right' amount to give."
A second parent agreed: "I personally think it's a little rude and if you ask for cash then it could make people uncomfortable."
Meanwhile, a third said: "This is awkward, especially if it's a daycare/school friend that you don't know that well."
While many parents admitted that they thought that the request was unreasonable, others rushed to defend the woman after admitting to requesting cash themselves.
"We asked for cash instead of a gift for our daughter and have used this money on her swimming/dance classes instead," one person claimed.
"We were moving and expecting a baby so the 'stuff' would not have been appreciated."
Another added: "I'm so into cash for presents. They get so much crap they rarely play with, it's better for them to choose one decent present that they will appreciate."
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