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Mike Thalassitis funeral: Montana Brown shares extract from heartfelt eulogy for Love Island star

Montana Brown has shared a heartfelt extract from the eulogy she delivered at the funeral of her Love Island co-star Mike Thalassitis.

The reality star delivered the touching remarks at the service held at Christ Church in Southgate, north London, last week.

She shared an Instagram photo of herself sitting on a yacht, gazing into the distance while wearing a wide-brimmed hat, and revealed that she was “taking [her] hat off to big M in the sky.”

Brown then went on to reveal that her followers had been “asking to see [her] eulogy” to her friend, before posting “just a bit of it” in an extended caption.

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Taking my hat off to big M in the sky 💗 for those of you who are asking to see my Eulogy... here’s just a bit of it. The last surprise was 2 weeks ago and I can tell you now Mike you surprised us all. I never knew that you were in so much pain, and I’m sorry that you felt like you couldn’t share your demons with me or your family as Ive spent some time with them over the past two weeks and they’re the most down to earth, lovely people and I’m so happy you had such a strong support network. So the human body strives to survive, cells regenerate, they reboot, they mutate all to keep the body alive. For Mikes mental illness to push him to the point where he wanted to self destruct and press that final game over button means that he must’ve been in such a dark place which we will never really understand. Mike, i truly believe you exhausted every avenue to avoid this outcome, as I know you knew you were loved, by so many people. You’re kind, you’re generous and sometimes very lairy.. but that’s the Mike that we all cherish and love. I know there’s a lot of people in the room that would give absolutely anything to have you back. You were so misunderstood, and i feel privileged to have been your friend, and I have to thank you for always being there for me, always sticking up for me and always telling me to stop being such a drama queen. You really were the best kind of person and I will always always remember you and learn from this awful situation. I keep thinking how we move through things so quickly these days, I mean life is so fast paced and people’s capacities to absorb something new often becomes maxed out. But the whole nation was shocked by this, and this isn’t something you should forget. So I’m looking at everyone here right and asking you to change yourself, change how you live your life, change how you love your loved ones and also change how you treat strangers. I can see a lot of reality faces in the room, please do not let this pass you by. It’s so hard, the rejection, the competitiveness, the need to constantly look like you’re ok, on social media. So let’s learn from this, we’re all in the same boat, we all have the same stresses...

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In the emotive speech, she described the former footballer as “kind,” “generous” and “loved by many people,” and said that she felt “privileged to have been [his] friend,” before urging attendees to “change how you live your life.”

“The last surprise was 2 weeks ago and I can tell you now Mike you surprised us all,” she said.

“I never knew that you were in so much pain, and I’m sorry that you felt like you couldn’t share your demons with me or your family, as I’ve spent some time with them over the past two weeks and they’re the most down to earth, lovely people and I’m so happy you had such a strong support network.”

Emotional: Brown looked close to tears when she arrived at the service (SplashNews.com)

She went on to say that there were “a lot of people in the room that would give absolutely anything to have [him] back,” adding: “You were so misunderstood, and I feel privileged to have been your friend, and I have to thank you for always being there for me, always sticking up for me and always telling me to stop being such a drama queen.

“You really were the best kind of person and I will always always remember you and learn from this awful situation.”

She concluded by urging “everyone here” to “change yourself, change how you live your life, change how you love your loved ones and also change how you treat strangers.

Montana Brown speaks about the moment she found out Mike Thalassitis had died

“I can see a lot of reality faces in the room, please do not let this pass you by,” she added. “It’s so hard, the rejection, the competitiveness, the need to constantly look like you’re ok, on social media.

“So let’s learn from this, we’re all in the same boat, we all have the same stresses.”

Thalassitis, who appeared on Love Island in 2017, died on March 15 at the age of 26.

His funeral was attended by fellow contestants Jonny Mitchell, Amber Davies, Camilla Thurlow and Jamie Jewitt, as well as Love Island presenter Caroline Flack.

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