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Siobhan Macdonald & John Bett

Man's strict rules that girlfriend must follow branded a 'massive red flag'

A male fitness model has left people divided after sharing a list of rules his partners must follow to be in a relationship with him.

Jamie Goldie, 22, enjoys lip-syncing to clips on TikTok but recently shared a video where he explained an unusual relationship quirk, as the Daily Record reports.

The bodybuilder said he had a stern list of rules that his partners had to follow, and they included leaving location services on at all times.

But people accused him of being 'insecure' and 'controlling', adding the rules constitute a huge red flag, but others thought they were fair.

Jamie has been blasted online for his list of strict rules that girlfriends must follow (goldie.jamie/Instagram)

What do you think about Jamie's rules? Let us know in the comments...

On TikTok, where he uploads as @goldie.jamie, he said: "Location has to be on, either Snapchat or Find My Phone. Either or, I’m happy, but you’ve got your location on, not got a choice.

"I don’t really care about your passwords, don’t really want your passwords to your social media stuff but I’d prefer to have the password for your phone.

"You never know, I might just have to have a look on your phone.

"Guy friends, definitely f***ing not, I’ve been the guy friend, I know what goes on.

"A shoulder to cry on is a d**k to sit on, remember that."

The list was short, but strict (goldie.jamie/Tiktok)

He added: "Social media, another simple one. You post me I’ll post you, you hide me, I’ll hide you.

"Girls wear absolutely ridiculous things out but there’s nothing you can do about it.

"As long as I’m the one there at the end of the day.

"There’s some basic rules for me being a boyfriend."

Jamie's video soon had over 140,000 views and a debate flared up in the comments.

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One viewer wrote: "Location and passwords big no no, my ex always was suspicious of me yet he’s the one who cheated. Trust is earnt not freely given."

"For a girl who has more guy pals than girls. It’s all about respect and boundaries. Not all girls want every guy's attention. Trust is always key."

Another agreed, adding: "Mate bolt. That’s massive [red flag emoji] right there, my husband does not care if I have guy friends, doesn’t snoop through my phone or demand my location."

However, not everyone thought his rules were too outlandish.

One user commented: "I want him, these are standard rules."

"Defo don’t see an issue as long as it’s both ways," said another.

A third agreed: "To be honest, I actually rate that! I’d give your rules a 10/10 very fair."

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