A man says he has been left conflicted after his girlfriend claims she is pregnant, despite him having a secret vasectomy. The man claims his partner is unaware of the operation he had two years before they met.
He is now convinced she is cheating, reports the Mirror.
The anonymous man wrote into the Daily Star's agony aunt for help with his relationship conundrum. He says he is unsure how to approach the subject with his seemingly unfaithful partner.
The man said: "My girlfriend has announced she's pregnant and I’m about to become a father. The only problem is that I had a vasectomy two years before we met.
The boyfriend continues to say that his partner has claimed that their contraception didn't work. However, he is not convinced by his girlfriend's excuses.
He said: "She's lying. She's obviously been having sex with another bloke".
"I've had my suspicions for ages. A few months ago, she started wearing fancy outfits to work and coming home late.
"Over the summer she announced she had a training weekend and I guessed she was going away with a secret lover. I'm so disappointed.
"I thought she might be the one. How long should I make her sweat?"
Advice columnist Jane O'Gorman warned the boyfriend that he shouldn't waste any time in having the conversation with his partner. She said: "This is not a game.
"You have to tell her the truth straight away, so she can decide what to do about the pregnancy. I understand that you're upset, but don’t waste any more time.
"Explain about your vasectomy so that she understands that the baby cannot be yours. It's time that everything came out in the open.
"She may have let you down and disappointed you, but you cannot leave her in the dark because this is too serious."
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