A man has asked for advice after the woman he was seeing left a party they were attending together with another man.
Taking to Reddit to look for some relationship advice he said: “The woman (28f) I am seeing (non exclusive) left the party with another man in front of me (27m). Now she is calling me again.
“So we have been dating non exclusively for about a month now. We went to this party together, I drove and I was going to remain sober as I had to drive us back too. Around two hours into the party she suddenly came towards me, with a guy in tow and told me that she would be leaving with him tonight and I didn’t have to worry about her.
“She stood for almost a minute after telling me this, and kept looking back at me till she was out of view. I was of course very disappointed as I really liked her but well, what can you do?
“But she called me two days later and asked if I wanted to hang out? I was confused but I didn’t really say anything except I am busy, maybe later?
“She said cool, let me know when you are free and we will schedule something. I don’t know Reddit, why would she call me afterwards ? Technically she didn’t do anything wrong but what she did obviously hurt me, she must know that. Then why call me afterwards? Any advice?”
Other users were quick to slam the woman for how she behaved saying they “wouldn’t even do that to a friend”.
One person said: “Exclusive or not, when going to an event as a couple it’s not a great look to branch off for other company for the night. Otherwise what was the point going together? Sure, casual is casual, but even most casual daters know better than to ditch their partner for someone else.
“Whether she’s ignorant of some basic etiquette or just simple inconsiderate, you have a good idea how much she respects you, or more to the point she doesn’t.”
While another said: “I think her looking at you while she left with him was a test and was waiting for you to stop her. Don’t play her games. Move on.”
