It takes a brave soul to tell a woman that part of her body looks strange - but in Oliver's case, it potentially saved his wife's life.
Louise Stephens-Pantoja didn't notice the lump on her breast herself, it was her husband.
Several weeks later she was diagnosed with cancer.
Had it not been for his eagle eyes and confidence to tell her, she may never have noticed the change until it was too late.
"It was just a normal Sunday morning," the mum-of-two said.
"I can remember it like it was yesterday.
"I was lying back on my pillow in bed, talking to my mum on the phone, and my husband was messing around trying to annoy me, he kept prodding me and I was batting him off.
"I put down the phone and he turned to me and said, 'what's that lump?'
"So I sat up to check, but I couldn't feel anything. Oliver was adamant he'd seen something, he'd felt it when he prodded me, then looked and seen it.
"I lay back down and there it was, this pea-sized lump just above my nipple. I hadn't noticed it, I don't know if I would have."
Louise wasn't too alarmed at first.
She booked to see her GP and was referred immediately to the Nightingale Centre at Wythenshawe Hospital for further tests.
In her job as a national sales manager, the 48-year-old from Irlam , Salford, is used to working with deadlines, and used that same mentality to get her through the next few weeks.
"I was always waiting for the next milestone - the next appointment, test, result, it was alien to me.
"So instead I decided to see it as if I was counting down to the next deadline.
"When they told me it was breast cancer I felt like someone had thrown a bucket of cold water over my head then pulled the rug from under my feet.
"The cancer was non-invasive, but I needed to have another biopsy to find out if it had spread to my lymphnodes.
"That was another week of waiting, another deadline, and it was at the forefront of my mind every single second of every day until the results came through."
Thankfully, the disease had not spread, and Louise was offered a choice of treatment and surgery.
Immediately she opted for a mastectomy.
"Straight away I knew that was what I wanted. I wanted it gone and this was my best chance of avoiding further treatment."
Louise said both of her teenage children dealt with what was happening incredibly, and that she received a huge amount of support from not only her family, friends and work colleagues, but also the team at the Nightingale Centre.
She is now backing Breastfest Manchester - a new campaign which aims to raise awareness of breast cancer within Greater Manchester.
It was launched by Margo Cornish - the woman behind some of the region's biggest fundraisers - and prevention research charity Prevent Breast Cancer, based at The Nightingale Centre.
For Louise, breast cancer wasn't something she felt she knew about until she experienced it for herself, and she now wants to make sure that all women - and men - are aware of the disease and its symptoms.
"It is so important for partners and husbands to be as aware of breast cancer as the woman," she added.
"Most women see themselves through a mirror, or by looking down and sometimes don't have the time to look closer, especially if they don't feel unwell.
"But a partner has a different, more objective view.
"They look at you in a different way and will notice any change before you do.
"It's also about having the confidence to say something - my husband was quick to tell me there was something there.
"When I couldn't feel anything he made me keep looking and get checked out, and I am thankful for that.
"We were having a laugh, he noticed something and felt able to tell me and point it out, without worrying I'd go mad at him for saying my boob looked weird.
"I want to get that message across - partners don't feel that your wives or girlfriends will be offended - you could be saving their life."
