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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Is paying to attend a birthday party now normal?

Bill Brown illustration for paying to attend a birthday

Every week a Guardian Money reader submits a question, and it’s up to you to help him or her out – a selection of the best answers will appear in next Saturday’s paper.

This week’s question:

My brother is organising his 50th birthday party … and expects us to pay! He wants us – around 15 in our extended family – to go to the Shard then on to a fancy restaurant. Has it become the thing to hold a party and make the guests pay for it?

Do you have a problem readers could solve? Email your suggestions to money@theguardian.com or write to us at Money, The Guardian, Kings Place, 90 York Way, London N1 9GU

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