I recently dined at a new restaurant in my neighborhood. It's a stylish spot, with good food and even better decor. But there was one design detail that completely threw me off — gold flatware. It was bold, perhaps too bold, and made the otherwise tastefully dressed tables feel a bit... tacky. Am I the only one that feels this way?
Now, don't get me wrong — I'm a gold girl at heart. I gravitate towards gold jewelry, and I typically love gold hardware around the home. But when it comes to setting the table, gold flatware is one detail I just can't seem to get behind.
So, is gold flatware tacky? Or am I just being precious? To find out, I asked a bunch of interior designers, and turns out it's quite a polarizing question. Designer Alex Bass agrees with me: "I think it can be overpowering and, honestly, I don’t enjoy eating with it," she says. But event planner (and expert table-setter) Mary Hollis Huddleston says, when done right, it can be beautiful.
Just like with most things, it comes down to the context. So, let's dive in.
Gold flatware can very easily fall into tacky territory, depending on the style and finish of the piece — so if you're a fan, pay attention.
"I don’t like the look of polished gold flatware with an elaborate handle," Mary Hollis Huddlestontells me, "but I do like the look of a simple and sleek polished gold handle."
Since gold is already inherently bold, when it comes to the style, stick to something simple. In terms of dressing a table with gold flatware, it's also worth taking your entire setting into consideration first. It looks best when paired with complementary details, like a gold-rimmed dinnerware set, says Mary. This way, it feels cohesive, rather than too gaudy.
When it comes to the best finish, matte gold flatware is best. "When I use bold colors on a tablescape, I often use brushed gold flatware, which has a matte finish," Mary adds. And Alex Bass agrees — adding that gold flatware with "minimalist or matte finishes can tone down the flashiness and feel more elegant."
This simple, yet stylish 16-piece cutlery set is bound to give your dining table an elevated feel whilst still being practical, thanks to the stainless steel material. The set is finished in a champagne color, which gives each utensil a shimmering allure.
Looking to add some real intrigue to your table? Do so with this 24-piece set. These sleek utensils are the key to a luxurious table with their gold finish and bronze undertones. Use this set for a dinner party to make a style statement on your table.
This 16-piece set presents a modern take on flatware with its square ends and glossy gold finish. Each utensil alone makes a statement, so together, they're a collection of eye-catching cutlery. Thanks to the sleek finish, this set could serve as the perfect flatware for a special occasion.
At the end of the day, gold is bold. Because of this, Mary says it's better suited for special events or holiday parties — think Christmas, New Years Eve, or other fancy events.
Although Alex doesn't love gold flatware, she agrees with Mary on this sentiment, adding that "Gold tends to make more of a statement, which is why I think it’s better suited for special occasions rather than everyday use."
While gold flatware might be an exciting addition to your table decor every now and then, I think it's decided that the more classic, everyday cutlery choice is silver. Aside from its simpler, more muted look, silver is also less prone to tarnishing and scratches — which means it'll last longer in your kitchen.
This stainless steel set adds an element of luxury to the dining experience with the ribbed detailing on each handle. While this set has a rather traditional feel, it could easily enhance the look of a modern dining table.
Looking for some modern flatware? Try this set. It features 18 pieces (service for six) and each utensil features a sleek, teardrop-shaped handle in a glossy silver finish. This set is bound to make your dining table look more sophisticated and stylish.
This stunning 24-piece set is ideal for those drawn to traditional flatware. Each utensil is made from durable stainless steel and is finished with ornate detailing on the handles. Consider this set perfect for a quintessential high dining experience, within the comfort of your own home.
So, is gold flatware tacky? The verdict, as always, comes down to your own personal preference, and what you like best for your home. But it seems that designers agree, gold flatware is best kept for special occasions and event table styling.
But gold or silver aside, the most stylish flatware is always going to be the cleanest and shiniest, so make sure you scrub up on how to clean flatware properly, to maintain it's longevity.
