A woman thought she was safe and secure in her relationship until she realized her partner was cheating on her in 30-minute intervals in their own home.
The worst part? She always had his location and believed she had full transparency.
“It’s been about over a week since I found out that my ex was cheating on me. And here’s what I’ve learned. Even when they [share] their location with you, even when you spend all your free time together, even when things seem perfect…” Su (@sucapone) said in a video that has gotten more than 200,000 views on TikTok. “We never fought. We didn’t argue. We had a great time. And even when you think that you have… full sight of everything. If someone wants to cheat on you, they absolutely will.”
How she realized he was cheating—suspicions in early September
It took some major sleuthing for Su to realize her partner was cheating, but eventually, she did.
Su was having a yard sale in early September when she started to feel paranoid. That day, her partner overslept, and she started to get an unexplainable anxious feeling. He arrived and helped her, but left soon after to go to a dispensary with his sister, or at least, that was his story.
She saw that he was at a random apartment complex. When she asked about it, he said they were grabbing marijuana from a friend. “He’s like, oh, ‘my sister just wanted to get some grass from this person first, and then we’re gonna go.’ I’m like, ‘You guys are getting it twice? Like that doesn’t make any sense.’ So I’m watching his location. He’s at this apartment complex, literally 15 minutes, then [he] goes home,” she said.
To her, his story didn’t add up. But later, when he did go to the dispensary with his sister, she let her worries subside.
She gets more worried in October
In early October, Su started to have some vaginal complications. When she went to the doctor, she realized she had HPV.
“I’ve never been diagnosed with HPV in my life,” she said. “I don’t understand what happened… I’ve been with the same person this whole time.”
Then she cleaned out his car and found two sex toys in the backseat. Su asked her boyfriend about them, only to get a half-reply that a friend had left them there.
Two weeks later, she decided to go through his phone. In his hidden folder, she found photos of him hooking up with a woman using the toys she found in his car.
He claimed it only happened once, but she used an online service to look up the addresses she visited. That’s how she realized he had been hooking up with a close friend. When she confronted him again, he finally admitted to it.
Since then, she’s tried to pinpoint every time he cheated, finding out that he had a relationship with Heather the entire time. Their short relationship was marred by every incident where he cheated, with important dates and events becoming constant reminders of his infidelity.
Wait, is this a Cheater Buster ad?
Some commenters were quick to pick up that Su was using cheaterbusterai.net, a paid service that normally costs around $18 to use. Across TikTok, hundreds of men and women have claimed to use the service to find their significant others cheating on them.
While some people argue that Cheater Buster’s AI actually works, others have had mixed results. The site can give mixed results if you can’t insert specific information into it. According to one survey, 73% of users report satisfactory results across Reddit, Trustpilot, and app store reviews. Contrary to the site’s claim of over 95% accuracy, it only touts around 89% with precise inputs. This can drop to 34% if you’re missing information in your search. The site can also give false positives.
The service gets advertised so much on TikTok, Instagram, and across social media that many social media users wonder if the videos are an ad.
Has Su left him?
Su said she didn’t leave her partner immediately, instead choosing to talk with him on Halloween about his cheating. Her partner didn’t suspect anything and thought they were going to carve pumpkins. Su picked up a bottle of Fireball on the way and planned to slash his tires until he told her the truth.
“We get in the car and I’m like, ‘You are gonna tell me everything I need to know, start to finish.’ And he started to obviously cry and freak out,” she said. “He was like, ‘Can you please put the [pumpkin carving] knife down?’ I said, OK, ‘I’ll put the knife down.’”
She said her partner had a panic attack while sobbing hysterically in the car. But things got worse when Su admitted that she had punched him several times. “He was not straightforward. He did not give me all the full details. And it just would just progressively [make] me more and more angry. And so I punched him. I punched him a lot,” she said. “My hand is still kind of [expletive] up. I punched his car a lot. I ripped his shirt off of his body.”
She had him drive to Heather’s house, something that terrified him. “My eyes were bulging, I was screaming. I threw his registration out the [expletive] window,” she said. From there, they went back into the city, effectively ending their relationship. Her now ex-partner got picked up by friends, leaving her alone again. She cried later, saying she wasn’t proud of her actions.
@sucapone Cheaters gonna cheat #storytime #cheater #cheating ♬ original sound – su
Commenters weigh in with mixed reactions
While some people agreed with Su’s decisions, others thought she was unnecessarily harsh and violent toward her ex.
“Babes. Why are we doing all this? Once you saw the toys, you should have just blocked him on everything and kept it moving. I would delete this part with the knives and punching. It could come back to haunt you,” one TikTok commenter said.
Overall, commenters were divided on whether to agree with Su’s actions after her breakup. Some supported her reaction, considering her ex gave her a sexually transmitted disease, while others thought she went too far.
The Mary Sue reached out to Su.
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