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Sam Hall

Prince Harry admits feeling ‘lost, betrayed or completely powerless’ during emotional speech

The Duke of Sussex revealed he has felt "lost, betrayed, or completely powerless" during his life, delivering a keynote address at a leadership summit in Melbourne.

Prince Harry shared his personal reflections at the InterEdge Summit on Thursday, an event focused on "leadership, psychosocial safety and human connection in the workplace," with the Duchess of Sussex observing from the audience.

Attendees at the Centrepiece conference venue could purchase delegate tickets for £525, while platinum access cost £1,250.

A virtual ticket, offering on-demand access to Harry’s speech, was priced at £260. It is understood that the Duke did not receive a fee for his address.

Similarly, Meghan was not compensated for her appearance on MasterChef Australia, which she filmed in Melbourne the previous day.

Addressing the delegates, the Duke highlighted a broader societal sentiment, stating there was "a lot in the world right now leaving us feeling anxious, stressed, helpless, powerless and completely overwhelmed."

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex take part in the Scar Tree Walk in Melbourne (Jonathan Brady/PA)

Wearing a jacket and white shirt, Harry said: “When I was invited to speak at this summit, I wasn’t sure whether I was expected to speak as someone who, despite everything, has their shit together.

“Or as someone who, despite what it may look like, actually doesn’t have his shit together.

“But I was struck by something quite simple – that while my experiences may be unusual, the feelings that come with them are not.

“In my experience, loss is disorienting at any age.

“Grief does not disappear because we ignore it. Experiencing that as a kid while in a goldfish bowl under constant surveillance, yes, that will have its challenges. And without purpose, it can break you.”

The Duke of Sussex said he had felt 'lost, betrayed, or completely powerless' during his life in a keynote speech at a summit on leadership in the workplace (AP)

Harry continued: “There have been many times when I’ve felt overwhelmed.

“Times when I’ve felt lost, betrayed, or completely powerless.

“Times when the pressure – externally and internally – felt constant.

“And times when, despite everything going on, I still had to show up pretending everything was ok, so as not to let anyone down.

“For many years I was numb to it, and perhaps that was easier then, but I also didn’t yet have the tools to deal with it.”

In a discussion after his speech with Australian business leader and former politician Brendan Nelson, Harry said: “After my mum died just before my 13th birthday – I was like: ‘I don’t want this job. I don’t want this role – wherever this is headed, I don’t like it.’

“It killed my mum and I was very much against it, and I stuck my head in the sand for years and years.

“Eventually I realised – well, hang on, if there was somebody else in this position, how would they be making the most of this platform and this ability and the resources that come with it to make a difference in the world?

“And also, what would my mum want me to do? And that really changed my own perspective.”

Prince Harry, the Duke of Sussex talks to young advocates during a visit to Batyr, a mental health engagement program at Swinburne University of Technology in Hawthorn, Melbourne (AP)

The duke said becoming a father changed his approach because you “start to notice the ripple effect more clearly”.

He added: “When a parent is overwhelmed, children feel it. When someone is supported, families feel it.

“For me, one of the biggest shifts came when I realised that asking for help isn’t a weakness. It’s very much a form of strength.”

The summit’s website states that the “transformative two-day summit” features “global thought leaders” and “goes beyond awareness to give leaders the tools, insights and inspiration to build a culture where people thrive”.

A profile of Harry on the summit’s website said that he has “dedicated his life to service and uplifting communities, while emphasising the importance of our collective mental health in his philanthropic and advocacy work globally”.

Other speakers at the summit include former Australian tennis professional Jelena Dokic and American social psychologist Amy Cuddy.

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