My sisters terrible baby name choice is going to ruin our relationship

pWeapos;ve all heard enough nightmare tales when it comes to prospective parents choosing baby names./p pLots of parents-to-be can get very territorial, to say the least, over their chosen moniker./p pItapos;s partly why so many people elect to keep the name secret until the big day in a bid to avoid any drama/p pIf you keep it under your hat, itapos;s the easiest way to ensure you avoid any rows with family and friends./p pBecause clearly, a lot of people have *very* strong opinions./p img src=https://i2-prod.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article23022732.ece/ALTERNATES/s810/0_expectant-mother-spelling-name-on-her-pregnant-belly.jpg title=The woman is arguing with her sister over the name data-portal-copyright=Getty Images/iStockphoto/ p/ p/ pIf you need further proof, hereapos;s one womanapos;s account of trying to negotiate with her sister after she made an unusual request./p pShe went to Redditapos;s quot;Am I the A******?quot; forum asking for advice on how to deal with the situation./p pHer sister recently got in touch to ask that she change her catapos;s name, which is Dio because her boyfriendapos;s uncle has a similar name./p pShe explains: quot;I have two cats, Tonks and Dio./p pquot;Tonks named after the HP [Harry Potter] character and Dioapos;s name is a little funny; named after DiGiorno pizza./p pquot;[I] Just liked Dio and my mom and I thought it was funny./p pquot;So now my sister has been saying sheapos;s gonna start trying for a baby. Iapos;m like cool okay congrats (not a big fan of kids myself but good luck to her)./p img src=https://i2-prod.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article22994126.ece/ALTERNATES/s810/0_Cute-ginger-cat-lies-on-womans-hands-The-fluffy-pet-comfortably-settled-to-sleep-or-to-play-Cute.jpg title=The woman has refused to change her cats name data-portal-copyright=Getty Images/iStockphoto/ pquot;Fast forward three months and shes pregnant and starts talking baby names and s***.quot;/p pAll good news so far....but this is when it gets odd./p pThe woman gets a text from a friend of her sisterapos;s boyfriend dropping a bombshell./p pShe continues: quot;Well her boyfriendapos;s friend texts me yesterday saying her bfapos;s family has a tito [uncle] Dio and would appreciate if I rename or (and I cannot believe this) rehome my cat./p papos;Friend said he could take him, like what the f***?/p pquot;No youapos;re not taking my cat and no Iapos;m not renaming him so thatapos;s what I tell the friend./p pquot;And like two hours later my sister calls me and just says something like she canapos;t ever be over at our (mine and moms) house with a cat named after her son./p img src=https://i2-prod.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article23024366.ece/ALTERNATES/s810/3_A-midsection-of-a-mother-holding-a-newborn-baby-son-at-home-A-close-up.jpg data-portal-copyright=Getty Images/ pquot;Itapos;s disrespectful, I cannot understand how shes functioning right now, mentally this is so stupid.quot;/p pThe womanapos;s refusal to comply has only deepened the row - as her mum suggested they rename the cat./p pShe added: quot;My mom said something like apos;Well we can call him deedee or d hes already 11.apos;/p pquot;Thatapos;s even more reason for me to not change his name heapos;s f****** 11./p pquot;Heapos;s had this name for a decade???? I know I SHOULD care more about a nephew than a cat but this is like my kid./p pquot;I donapos;t want him to be confused and scared for the last half of his life. and I know my sister./p pquot;Sheapos;d bring her son over and let him f*** with the cats and call it cute and take pictures even if I tell her to stop.quot;/p pAnyway, sheapos;s now stood firm and now her mum and sister are asking her to reconsider./p pAfter detailing the bonkers exchange, the woman asked if she was in the wrong./p pOne person advised: quot;Refuse to accept quot;boyfriendapos;s uncleapos;s nicknamequot; as a reason./p pquot;Insist, and keep on insisting that it all about your cat, and that youapos;d be honored that she chose to name her kid after your cat ... if only it werenapos;t for the a**holes insisting you rename or rehome your cat.quot;/p pAnother joked: quot;Tell them youapos;ll rename your cat Tio, in honor of the boyfriendapos;s uncle./p pquot;And by the way, naming your kid Dio, will forever have people asking if heapos;s named after the singer.quot;/p