A Chicago woman accidentally ended up with a serial cheater. The worst part? She found out through a TikTok comment that he wasn’t faithful.
“ Not only that, but he was cheating on me with at least three of the girls, and one of them he was [fully] dating,” said Eiley (@eiley.cyrus) in a video that’s gotten over 492,000 views since Nov. 7.
It turns out, many women know of her ex-boyfriend, and they’ve got stories to share that will shock you.
Eiley’s experience dating her ex
Eiley had a birthday right around the corner when her relationship started going south. She noticed during that week that her then-boyfriend was extremely quiet, leading her to ask what was wrong.
On a Saturday, Eiley had a birthday party with all of her friends. It was a big deal because her partner would meet many of them for the first time that night. Everything went well, with her boyfriend mingling with all of her friends and being openly affectionate.
Then, she tried getting him to Uber with some of her friends to go bar-hopping that night. When he was supposed to get in the Uber, he ended up ditching the party entirely with zero explanation.
“ The first place that my mind goes is that maybe he’s too drunk and embarrassed because he didn’t drink often,” Eiley said. But she couldn’t reach him despite trying to contact him throughout the night.
She was incredibly surprised by his behavior, but ended up trying to let it go so that she wouldn’t ruin the night for her friends. Eiley had many of her friends stay over that night, which was a helpful distraction. The next morning, she tried to piece together why her boyfriend had ditched her birthday with little explanation. When he finally texted, it was all the more shocking.
“He doesn’t text me until 1:00 p.m. that day and all he says [is], ‘let’s save our breath here. I can’t see you anymore and need to move on.’”
Eiley tried to ask for an explanation, but he refused to give her one at first.
An item exchange with a cold, cold man
Eiley dropped asking for an explanation for now, but she wanted her possessions back. She tried to work out a system to get some of her items back from him, but he insisted that she give back multiple gifts she had given him in order to get her stuff back. He also told her he didn’t want to do an item drop-off in person.
She had him drop her possessions off at her place, letting him know that she had his stuff waiting outside by the door. But, she met him by the stairs to try and get a conversation out of him. Eiley recounted that her ex didn’t bring everything she needed, so she had him go back and get some more items.
As he was walking away, he asked her if she needed an in-person conversation. She said yes, so he looped back around for a curt chat.
“ Essentially all he [said was] that I was a bad girlfriend and his breaking point was that I had him get in a different Uber,” Eiley said. “ I just kind of take that as it is. Like I’m clearly not gonna get a real reason or an actual conversation out of this man, and I’m kind of over it.”
Eiley realizes she forgot one very expensive thing
Eiley was ready to let the entire situation go until she realized that he owed her money. She had Venmoed him to pay for a future trip to California to visit his friends—now very much canceled.
So, Eiley reached out to him and asked him to send the money back. Her ex responded incredibly coldly, refusing to do so and continuously saying that the flight was non-refundable. Eiley asked about getting a flight credit or some kind of chargeback for it. He also refused to look into that.
By this point, Eiley was fed up with her ex’s behavior. “ He [started] saying that I’m accusing him of taking my money… [It] just gets very extreme. I’m starting to get really fed up with the situation… I essentially ghosted by my boyfriend on my birthday party, and he will not give me my money back.”
Eiley finds out about ‘the other woman’
Her friends left comments on his Instagram calling him broke in jesting retaliation, which was the only small win Eiley had. Her ex immediately sent her a screenshot of the comment. But, he accidentally exposed the fact that he was on FaceTime with his ex, whom Eiley had suspicions about from the start.
From there, she decided to make a general TikTok complaining about him. In it, she said, “No one will do you dirtier than the men in Chicago.”
Then, she saw the comments.
Women come forward on TikTok with their own stories
Countless women had apparently had baffling experiences with Eiley’s ex, something she discovered through her TikTok comments section.
“[An] account comments back, and it’s clearly a burner account,” Eiley said. “And they say, if you’re talking about a half Greek guy, I’m pretty sure my friend from school is seeing him.”
Eiley’s ex is Greek, so she ended up replying to the comment. From there, she DM’ed the other girl and confirmed they were talking about the same guy. She got the phone number for another one of the “other women” her ex pursued: “So we’re texting back and forth and we basically put together that he had been pursuing her the entire time that we’d been seeing each other, and they actually pretty recently started dating officially while him and I were still in a relationship,” she said.
He ended up leaving Eiley’s birthday party to go to his other girlfriend’s house.
“ So he was dating this girl while he met my parents. He was dating her when he met all of my close friends. [This man] allowed me to spend money on flights for trips to go on in the future with him,” she said. “He then had the audacity to text me and say, ‘I’ve heard you’ve been making tiktoks about me. I think you’re taking this little far.’”
After some back-and-forth, Eiley told her ex to never contact her again.
@eiley.cyrus Replying to @Alicia Beatty serial cheater part 2. after the amount of information i’ve recieved since my last video, I felt it was necessary to share and speak up for those who can’t to protect as many women as possible. I didn’t expect to reach as many people as I did, and i’m beyond grateful for the support ?? #datinghorrorstory #cheatingboyfriend #cheatingstory #datingstorytime #cheater ♬ original sound – eiley.cyrus
The TikTok stories turn horrifying
Eiley ended up making another TikTok about her ex. She had more to dish out–not because she had talked with him recently, but because others had the unfortunate experience of speaking to him.
“The amount of women who’ve come forward with horror stories of this man since I posted that last video is beyond disturbing and shocking,” she said.
She recounted stories from women whom he had chatted with, all of whom had extremely negative experiences with the man. He would talk with countless Chicago women at the same time, allegedly asking for Venmo requests for big-ticket trips before ghosting them.
Her ex also threatened her with legal action due to her TikToks. “He has already threatened legal action against me if I don’t delete the TikTok, and I’m also trying to protect myself legally,” she said. While she didn’t name him, other commenters sleuthed and found his social media pages, easily identifying the man repeatedly in the comments section.
While we won’t identify him, it’s safe to say he has a torrid reputation due to his actions. Tens of women were able to tell who he was without even hearing his name. According to some commenters, he’s since deleted his Hinge profile. The alleged cheaters‘ social media profiles also appear to be wiped off all digital platforms.
The Mary Sue has reached out to Eiley for comment.
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