We have always ignored their presence in our society. We have never given them an identity. We have always ostracized them for their gender and sexuality. And the worst part is, none of these is their fault.
However, times have changed. Inclusivity is the demand of society. Advanced communication and technological support calls for attention towards putting a stop to social taboos. As a generation that has seen so many wrongs being done, it is our duty to change the course of action.
When it comes to transgenders, we should not only teach our kids to accept them as one of us, we should teach them how to respect every creature irrespective of color, sex, race, height, nationality and religion.
Here are few common questions related to transgenders that can help you answer the queries of your child:
Who is a transgender?
A person whose gender is different from what it was thought of at birth is called a transgender. For example, a baby born as a girl grows up to be a woman and a baby born as a boy grows up to be a man. However, in case of transgenders, a baby born as a girl grows up to be a man and a baby born as a boy grows up to be a woman.How does one become transgender?
There isn't any single explanation for this. Several reasons can account for the sexuality of an individual. Health experts have noted that genetic factors, prenatal hormone levels, adolescence experiences and other factors determine the sexuality of an individual.How does someone realise that they are transgenders?
There are several ways a person comes to a realization about sexuality. Some of them would find it difficult to fit into the gender they were assigned during birth and would try to do the opposite. Many of them are likely to go into trauma as their transition is mostly likely to be rejected by families.Is it a mental disorder?
No, it is not. But if the concerned child or individual does not get proper support from family and friends then the condition may worsen to depression. It is very important to help these individuals get counselling and medical assistance as soon as they sense their sexuality. What should I do if someone I know is a transgender?
The first and foremost thing to do is to be normal. Transgenders do not belong to different species. They are just like us human beings. With a transgender you should behave in the same manner you behave with your friends. These individuals go through a lot in order to be accepted within the society. Therefore, it is our job to help them get included among us.What can I do to teach others to be kind towards transgenders?
Read books on transgenders and educate yourself. Understand what makes them transgenders and teach others who do not know about it. Forbid use of slang and mock names which are commonly used in our societies. Even in many cases, people use these words for other purposes like to demean an opponent; this should be discouraged.Be friends with such people. If they are not comfortable being friends with you, give them space but remain in touch.Suggest them to take therapies and help them to understand their sexuality.Encourage them and convey it to them that every human being is born unique, nobody is born small and destitute.
