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Hilary Osborne

How can I split up with my girlfriend and afford my mortgage?

An unhappy couple on a couch — How can we make a clean break? Photograph: Stephen Welstead/Corbis

Every week a Guardian Money reader submits a question, and it's up to you to help him or her out – a selection of the best answers will appear in Saturday's paper.

This week's question

I've been living with my girlfriend for two years in a one-bed flat. She's still in love with me, but I no longer fancy her. The mortgage is in my name, but I can't afford it without her £350 a month. If I finish it, I'll be left with a flat I can't afford and can't sell. Is there a way out of this living hell?

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