When registered nurse Nicole called "The Ramsey Show," she wasn't looking for sympathy — she was looking for a solution. Despite earning a combined $350,000 a year with her husband, the couple is buried under more than $55,000 in credit card debt and often ends the month with just cents left in their checking account.
Hosts George Kamel and Ken Coleman listened carefully, then laid out the tough love and practical steps needed to turn things around.
How Does a High-Income Household End Up in Debt?
Nicole and her husband earn an impressive income — she brings in around $100,000, while her husband, a New York City firefighter, earns $230,000 to $250,000 depending on overtime. Still, they carry $55,000 in credit card debt, a $30,000 student loan, and a $27,000 car loan.
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"We're just living basically," Nicole explained. But the numbers didn't add up.
"I don’t know anyone who lives basically, making $350,000, who still goes 60 grand into credit card debt," Kamel said. "I just don’t believe that."
The couple's fixed expenses include a $3,000 mortgage, about $7,000 in household bills, $2,000 in minimum monthly credit card payments, and roughly $1,000 a month for work-related costs her husband incurs at the firehouse. That leaves thousands unaccounted for.
"You literally have no idea what you spend the $30,000 on," Coleman said during the show, pointing out the issue may not be income — but lack of awareness.
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Lifestyle Creep and the ‘Invisible' Spending
Nicole admitted that her spending ramped up once she began working full-time. Although she used to have no credit card debt, she quickly accumulated $55,000 after just two years on the job.
Kamel called this "lifestyle creep" — the tendency to spend more as you earn more. “The more you make, the more you’re going to spend, the more you can stomach that next payment," he said."
He and Coleman emphasized that this pattern is common. Many high-income households live paycheck to paycheck, not because of emergencies or medical bills, but because of unchecked day-to-day spending.
A Budget, Not More Income, Is the Answer
While it may seem like earning more would solve the problem, Kamel and Coleman made it clear: the solution isn't more money — it's a plan.
"The solution here is to get on a very strict written budget with your husband starting tonight," Kamel advised. The hosts encouraged her to track every dollar: from groceries to transportation to household items. That visibility, they said, is key to regaining control.
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"It will set you and your husband free when you truly get every budget item in that every dollar budget and begin to look at it," Coleman said.
Progress Is Possible — Even With Six Figures of Debt
Nicole has already made progress — she's paid off three credit cards since discovering "The Ramsey Show." But both hosts agreed: With a combined income of $350,000, the couple could eliminate all $112,000 of their debt in a short time — if they stick to a plan.
The takeaway? High income doesn't guarantee financial stability. Without a budget, even six figures can disappear fast. But with discipline, tracking, and teamwork, Nicole and her husband can rewrite their financial story — and finally stop living month to month.
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