Prince Harry, who was just 12 when his mother – the late princess Diana – died in a car accident, has said that he regrets not talking sooner about how her loss affected him.
His words came during an event for mental health charity Heads Together, a charity founded by Harry and the duke and duchess of Cambridge. He was speaking to former England and Manchester United defender Rio Ferdinand, whose wife, Rebecca, died of cancer last year.
Ferdinand asked Harry to share his views on how Rebecca’s death might impact on his children, to which the prince responded [talking about his own experiences], saying, “I regret not ever talking about it [Diana’s death].”
Harry added: “It’s OK to suffer, as long as you talk about it. It’s not a weakness. Weakness is having a problem and not recognising it and not solving that problem.”
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