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Derry mum's determination to fulfil 'last promise' to baby daughter before her death

A Derry mum has opened up about her determination to fulfil the last promise she made to her daughter before she passed away.

Bronagh Parke's daughter Sofia died from cardiac disease at just two-years-old in 2016.

And despite her pain and heartache, Bronagh made a promise to her daughter during the last moments of her life that she would give back to all the nursing and medical teams who looked after her.

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The 29-year-old enrolled in the Access Diploma in Health and Welfare in 2019 at Derry's North West Regional College and is now in her first year of a Nursing Degree at UU’s Magee Campus.

Bronagh said: "I loved doing my Access course. When I finished my GCSEs at school I went back to do my A-Levels, but I didn’t finish them.

"I gave birth to my daughter Sofia when I was 21, she was born terminally ill with only one part of her heart developed.

"I remember being handed that wee baby and taking her home. She was my world, so much so that I kept asking myself - is it normal to love your baby this much?

"Becoming Sofia’s mammy meant I had to grow up very quickly. Sofia needed many medical interventions at Altnagelvin Hospital, the Royal Victoria Hospital, and in Birmingham.

"I wanted to look after Sofia at home, so I insisted on being trained in tube feeding, oxygen, and the saturation monitor.

"I was never told a time frame for Sofia’s life, and I was oblivious to the fact that one day I’d lose her, I never believed it."

Little Sofia passed away two weeks after her second birthday in 2016.

Bronagh said: "Sofia died in my arms, and as she did, I made her a promise that I would give back to all the people who had looked after and cared for her.

"The medical teams inspired me every day, they treated Sofia like she was their own child.

"The time after she died was very difficult, but I had great support from my family and Sofia’s Daddy.

"When I was ready, they encouraged me to keep that promise I made to Sofia. I didn’t have any A-Levels so the Access course at NWRC was my next step.

"Completing that course and getting into nursing was a great achievement for me. It prepared me so well for university.

"I was so lucky to have lecturers around me who supported me and my mammy Tara, who looks after my other daughter Harper when I’m at college.

"I’d say to anyone who didn’t finish their education for whatever reason to take the plunge, it was the best thing I did."

Graduates will gather at the Millennium Forum with friends and family to mark the successful completion of courses undertaken at the College’s Strand Road, Limavady and Strabane Campuses.

Principal and Chief Executive of NWRC, Leo Murphy said: “The entire college community is proud of all their success and achievements.

“This is a day that many have been looking forward to, sharing in the company of fellow classmates, lecturers, and of course their family and friends who have supported them every step of the way. I encourage each of our graduates to make the most of the opportunities they have in the future.”

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