Couple who played Mary and Joseph in primary school nativity get married 30 years later

By Olive Loveridge-Greene

A couple who played Mary and Joseph in their primary school nativity as youngsters have got married 30 years later.

Rose Childerhouse, 38, and James Macpherson, 40, tied the knot last week surrounded by their friends and family - some who were in the audience at their childhood play.

Both attended Sixpenny Handley First School in Dorset and were picked to play the lead parts in the nativity play in the early 1990s.

Buyer Rose had a schoolgirl crush on her older co-star but advertising exec James said he had taken the role of the biblical character to impress another girl.

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The couple tied the knot last weekend (James Macpherson / SWNS)
Rose had a schoolgirl crush on her older co-star (James Macpherson / SWNS)

The pair dated again briefly while studying at Westminster University in London before Rose ditched James for the lead singer of a band.

But in 2017, a chance meeting between buyer Rose and advertising exec James on a night out in London led to a true romance.

Three years ago James popped the question to Rose and with lockdown restrictions easing were able to walk down the aisle on Saturday near their family home in Farnham, Dorset.

A chance meeting in London led to a true romance (James Macpherson / SWNS)

Newlywed Rose said: "I used to have a crush on James at school so it was a bit embarrassing when he was cast as Joseph.

"Although I had a crush on him I didn't think I would be getting married to him!

“It feels like it has been a long time coming but it was worth the wait."

Chuffed James said: "It's really quite something when you think about it.

The couple played Mary and Joseph in the early 1990s (James Macpherson / SWNS)

"Our parents along with my auntie, uncle and sister were in the audience for the play and were guests at our wedding!

"They've been there straight from the start.

"I can't remember too much but I did have a crush on another girl at school and didn't have a speaking part which I was pretty annoyed and upset about.

"When we first started dating I remember visiting the family home and Rose's mum went 'Can you remember the nativity play at school?' and that's when it clicked.

"I said 'Oh my God we were Mary and Joseph weren't we?'.

"Then she got the photo album out to show us those pictures.

"That's when we all realised."

The pair are now enjoying their honeymoon in Athens, Greece, and have begun their IVF journey to complete their family.

James added: "I proposed to Rose on her mum and dad's wedding anniversary.

James popped the question three years ago (James Macpherson / SWNS)

"It was actually in the garden of her family home behind the apple tree we used to play around as kids.

"Whenever we tell people about it, it's always a source of endearment.

"They say 'You're joking' and tell us what a lovely story it is.

"It’s been a bit of a crazy few years, and neither of us thought this would happen.

"It’s been a dream come true."

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