One thing about kids is a universal truth—there’s never a dull moment with them. And whether they’re known to be on their best behavior at all times or act more like Dennis the Menace, some situations can call for any of them to engage in something their parents would likely not approve of. But sometimes the seemingly “wrong” thing to do becomes something to be applauded. Members of the ‘Ask Women’ community recently discussed such instances when a user asked them about the technically “wrong” things their children have done that actually made their parent proud.
Some instances like this do tend to be funny, which makes it difficult for parents to keep a straight face, but it’s crucial that they do if they want to teach their little one to distinguish right from wrong. Children reportedly build the foundation for ethical behavior over the first five years of their lives and parents play a crucial role in the process.
When discussing the “wrong” things kids do, the OP shared that fighting in your own defense or someone else’s defense is definitely something they wouldn’t consider wrong. They continued to point out that not blindly listening to authority figures would be there on the list, too.
“Kids can be amazing and seeing them become their own people and interpret the rules can be an amazing thing,” the OP told Bored Panda. “Too often life will teach us to just follow the rules and not question things. We let the bullies of the workplace or corporations push us around and it might be good to remember what it was like to be a kid when we just did what we thought was right, no matter the consequences.”
Some of the instances shared by the community members included children standing up against bullies, defending themselves or others, challenging gender stereotypes, and even pulling off mischievous pranks. While some actions may seem unconventional or even inappropriate, they shed light on the resilience, courage, and moral compass of these young individuals.
From punching a bully in the face to standing up against discriminatory behavior, these children showcased a sense of justice and integrity that left their parents feeling proud, despite the unconventional nature of their actions. It serves as a reminder that children are capable of making ethical decisions and taking a stand for what they believe is right, even if it means breaking a few rules along the way.
These anecdotes highlight the complexity of parenting and the importance of guiding children to navigate moral dilemmas while fostering their independence and critical thinking skills. While some may view these incidents as controversial or inappropriate, they offer valuable insights into the development of children’s moral compass and their ability to discern right from wrong in challenging situations.
