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Blind date: ‘Most awkward moment? Me eating alone as he wasn’t hungry’

Jayson and Eleanor

Jayson on Eleanor

Jayson standing in black jeans and a red hoodie.

What were you hoping for?
A nice evening. I was curious about what it would bring.

First impressions?
A very nice and easygoing person. She was welcoming and a pleasure to talk to.

What did you talk about?
Eleanor’s work at a local charity and her passion for fundraising. I was very impressed with how she travelled across Asia on her own at a young age. Travelling. Food. Horror films/TV shows. Family.

Most awkward moment?
I didn’t drink any alcohol or eat a full meal. I’d had a very late breakfast and I’m in training – so perhaps that mismatch was a bit awkward.

Good table manners?
Yes, can’t complain.

Best thing about Eleanor?
She has a great relationship with her family and friends, which is amazing.

Would you introduce Eleanor to your friends?
Yes. She is a funny person with a great personality.

Describe Eleanor in three words.
Open-minded, family-oriented, positive.

What do you think Eleanor made of you?
I hope she enjoyed the evening. We had very similar taste in horror films.

Did you go on somewhere?
No.

And … did you kiss?
The conversation flowed effortlessly, but it didn’t feel charged with romantic potential.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?
Perhaps I would have had breakfast earlier, so I could have eaten a meal with Eleanor.

Marks out of 10?
7.

Would you meet again?
Unfortunately, no. We had a great time but I don’t think there was a spark.

Jayson and Eleanor on their date.
Jayson and Eleanor on their date Photograph: From Jayson

Eleanor on Jayson

Eleanor in blue jeans, a black top and wooly grey cardigan.

What were you hoping for?
An evening of good food, laughter and possible flirting.

First impressions?
He was tall and had a really kind face.

What did you talk about?
Work. Holidays. TV we watched as kids. Jayson’s passion for streetwear. Our shared love of horror films.

Most awkward moment?
Me dining solo. He wasn’t hungry because he’d had breakfast at 3pm!

Good table manners?
He didn’t eat much or drink anything, so I’m unsure about his table manners.

Best thing about Jayson?
We didn’t stop talking. He was full of questions and stories about holidays and experiences running marathons.

Would you introduce Jayson to your friends?
Yes, although I’m unsure if he would enjoy an evening with them.

Describe Jayson in three words.
Sweet, serious, polite.

What do you think Jayson made of you?
I think he found me rather unserious and wild, especially when I had my third solo spicy margarita.

Did you go on somewhere?
No, it wasn’t really the vibe.

And … did you kiss?
No.

If you could change one thing about the evening what would it be?
That we could have shared a few small plates and sampled more of the menu.

Marks out of 10?
7.

Would you meet again?
I don’t think so. We are very different people, with different priorities in life.

Eleanor and Jayson ate at Brooke, London SW4. Fancy a blind date? Email blind.date@theguardian.com

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